Weekly Review December 19 '09

The Christmas tree is finally up & decorated!

Snow on the back deck, about 8:30 this morning



Snow on the deck, around noon.

The wintery Monocacy River (from our back door)

Presents piled under the tree!

Snickers looking fine with a new haircut!

Another haircut photo

A very cute Santa! (The scratch is from falling into the Christmas tree!)

We didn’t have church on Sunday because of the weather. It really wasn’t so bad—mostly rainy and cold, but apparently the roads were a little icy and quite slippery that morning. By mid morning, the roads were just wet. Most of us think we should have had church, but I guess it’s always hard to predict these things! You would think with church cancelled that we would have a quiet day with lots of extra time to just relax, but it didn’t work out that way. Mainly that was because of all the things I was supposed to do at church, such as pass out all the plates with cookies to the teachers. All of us in the Primary presidency ended up driving around to the teachers’ houses to deliver the plates instead, since we didn’t want to give the teachers plates of stale cookies and we also didn’t want to make all those cookies all over again! Other things that got messed up: choir practice (my last chance to practice since Ward Council is held at the same time as choir), a special presentation that I had prepared to give to each of the older classes (one of my counselors is going to be gone the next two Sundays so I wanted to get it done before she left, knowing I would be a lot busier the weeks she’s gone), and a visiting teaching appointment that I had right after church. There were lots of phone calls going back and forth that morning, but I think we got it all worked out!

One of my counselors and I had an appointment that afternoon to visit a family with Primary kids—we were able to go ahead and do that as planned. In addition, my other counselor and my secretary came to visit Jared & Seth. We also had family night and decorated the Christmas tree. It turned out to be a pretty full day! We did get a chance to play a few games, which we don’t usually have time to do on Sunday, so that was nice. After we got the tree decorated, we were all admiring it. Tanner said “I like it, but I’d like it better if there were presents under it!” Well, there are presents under it now—thanks to the package we got from Mom & Dad on Wednesday and a little “wrapping party” I had on Thursday evening. It’s hard for me to believe that Christmas is so soon!

I didn’t have quite as long “to do” lists as last week, but it was still a full week with book club on Monday (we had a huge amount of food!), my visiting teachers stopping by on Tuesday, a Primary presidency meeting on Wednesday night, a doctor appointment for Tanner after school on Thursday (check up on his medicine; he is 5’ 7 ½ “and weighs 110 ½ pounds now), and Snickers going to the groomer (also on Thursday; he looks great!). The laundry didn’t do itself, the house didn’t clean itself, and food did not appear in the cabinets either, so I took care of all that, too!

By Thursday evening / Friday morning, they were predicting significant snow for this week end. Frank always jokes that whenever snow is predicted around here, everyone runs to the store and stocks up on milk, bread, and toilet paper. I ended up going to Wal-Mart yesterday morning to get a few things I realized I’d forgotten on an earlier trip this week, and there were indeed a ton of people there, and I saw a lot of milk, bread, and toilet paper in shopping carts, which made me giggle. There were a lot of other things in carts, also, though.

Yesterday was enlivened a bit by the power going out a couple of times—there was work on the power lines being done nearby. Thankfully, the power was off for only a few minutes each time it went out. Frank and I went to the temple last night. We left as soon as the boys got home from school so that we would be sure to get back home before the storm hit. (It wasn’t supposed to hit until around midnight, but we wanted to be on the safe side!) We got stuck in pretty bad traffic, so we missed the 4:00 session we were shooting for. Instead of waiting for the 5:00 session, we did initiatories instead, which I always enjoy. We left the temple by about 5:45, but didn’t get home until about 8:30 because Frank had to stop on the way home to buy a computer for a client, we stopped for dinner, and we ran into some more traffic (but not too bad this time). We found everything was well at home—the older boys do a good job babysitting (although they could work on cleaning up the kitchen after meals).

We woke up this morning to about 6 inches of snow, and it is still coming down. Now, at noon, we have a full foot of snow. The weather reports say that the snow is going to get heavy this afternoon, with an additional 8-12 inches expected and another 2-4 inches expected this evening! The ward Christmas party, which was scheduled for this evening, has already been cancelled. Frank and I were not going to be able to go to that anyway because the Griffin party was also supposed to be tonight, at a restaurant here in Frederick. (We had already committed to go to his work party when they decided to move the ward party to the same night. Originally, the ward party was scheduled for December 5^th.) Now the ward party is going to take place in January, so I guess we’ll get to go! The Griffin party has also been cancelled (I’m not sure when it’s gong to be rescheduled). I planned dinner for just the boys tonight, so dinner is going to be interesting! We’re thinking church is probably going to be cancelled tomorrow, also.

Frank was supposed to be helping cook the ward dinner all day today, but now he doesn’t have to go so he has some unexpected free time. He is still trying to think of excuses to go outside, because he loves driving in the snow! (Yes, he’s crazy.) Maybe all of us will venture out later to sled or build a snowman! The boys and I did some scouts and wrapped some more presents (wrapping paper roll fights were popular.) Now they are all playing video games.

It looks like we’re going to have a white Christmas this year!

Weekly Review December 12 '09

It appears that winter has finally arrived in Maryland, and I think it’s here to stay. The snow we got last Saturday didn’t last very long, but we got a little more on Tuesday evening and wow, is it cold! Thursday and Friday were particularly cold, as well as windy. Brrrrrr! Most people thought we were going to have a delayed opening (if not school closed entirely) on Wednesday because we were supposed to get rain / freezing rain Tuesday night. It did rain with a little bit of ice mixed in earlier in the evening and then not long before Frank and I went to bed it started snowing very hard and everything was covered with at least a half inch of snow before we went to bed. However, some time in the night it warmed up enough that the snow turned to rain and washed away all the snow and ice on the roads, so school was held as usual.

It was a busy week for all of us, but I don’t think I’ll have a lot to write about. I had all the usual work to do, plus several extra things like mailing packages and Christmas cards, giving the dog a bath, ordering photos, scheduling visits and preparing a special presentation for Primary, going through all the coats in the closet to weed out old ones and figure out who might need a new one, and taking Scott & Tanner to buy boots, gloves, long johns, etc. for a camp out they had this week end. Since it is so cold, I wanted to make sure they had adequate warm clothes! All of that added up to long lists of things to do each day and a lot of running around. I feel like I got a lot accomplished, though.

Frank was gone Tuesday evening until pretty late because he was working on his MCNE class with his boss. On Thursday evening he was even later because he had volunteered to help with the Festival of Lights down at the temple grounds. They always ask the local stakes to provide male volunteers to help with directing traffic and so forth. Frank was at work by 6:00 that morning and he went straight from work to volunteer from 4:30-9:30, so it was a really long day for him. He was also out in the freezing cold with the wind blowing most of that time, so it wasn’t pleasant but he was happy to help. He saw Scott that morning before he left for work, but the other boys were still asleep when he left, and in bed before he got home, so he didn’t see any of them at all that day.

Wednesday evening was my night to be out—we had our Relief Society Christmas program and dinner. It was very nice. The program was focused on what Christmas was like in Joseph Smith’s day. A couple in our ward dressed up like Joseph & Emma and they shared stories and read journal entries from that time. The dinner was fabulous—we actually had prime rib, along with creamy mashed potatoes, steamed vegetables, rolls, fruit salad, and corn casserole. All of it was delicious! After I got home we stayed up a little late to watch a show called Top Chef. We haven’t been watching all season, but we’ve been hearing about the show a lot on the local radio station because two of the final three contestants are brothers who grew up in Frederick (both graduated from the same high school that Scott attends now) so we were interested to see who won. It did get down to the two brothers as the last two contestants, but the younger brother, who doesn’t live in Frederick anymore, was the one who won top honors. The older brother still lives in Frederick and actually owns a restaurant downtown, so maybe we will have to go check it out sometime. (Although I’m sure it’s pretty expensive!) Anyway, it was fun to see a couple of people from Frederick do so well.

Friday evening was quieter than usual, with Scott and Tanner gone. After we got the boys to bed, Frank and I watched the movie “Julie & Julia” which we really enjoyed. I also finished a book I was reading all week called Perilous Gard by Elizabeth Marie Pope. It’s more of a young adult book, but a friend offered to loan it to me when I told her I’d read another book by the same author (The Sherwood Ring) and loved that book. I liked Perilous Gard also, although I liked the Sherwood Ring better. Both books are historical with a bit of fantasy thrown in, which is a fun combination.

Today has been a busy day. I spent all morning making 2 batches of brownies and 2 batches of cookies, and putting them on the plates for the Primary teachers that the kids made a few weeks ago. Frank made a run to the store and also put up the Christmas tree (it’s not decorated yet). When I was done with the cookies, I got Seth down for a nap and then took Jared to a couple of places for Museums by Candlelight, which is an annual event here in Frederick every year. (Many local museums & historic places open up free of charge and usually have activities for kids as well. After dark, they all light up their buildings & grounds with candles.) We went to a place called Rose Hill Manor as well as the Roger Brooke Taney house (he was a resident of Frederick who was also a Supreme Court Justice in Lincoln’s time). I think the part we enjoyed most about Rose Hill Manor was the carriage museum. They had probably about 25 old buggies, wagons, carriages, and sleighs—very interesting! At the Roger Brooke Taney house, they had a lady singing songs in one room, a couple of crafts in two other rooms, hearth cooking, and (Jared’s favorite part) cookies and hot chocolate. Unfortunately, I forgot to take the camera with us, so we didn’t get any pictures.

After Jared and I got home, we made dinner; the missionaries came for dinner also which is always nice. Scott and Tanner arrived home while we were gone to the museums. They were very tired, but they said they stayed warm, so all the effort to make sure they had warm clothes was worth it! Scott was really crabby, though, and ended up going to bed before dinner. Frank was able to get Seth’s new bed set up; he is very excited about it. Frank had Seth help him take down the crib. When they were done, Seth came running down the stairs and said (very excited!): “Guys, guys! Come look! Daddy broke my crib!” We all got a laugh out of that. After dinner, we cleaned all the floors and then watched a Christmas movie on the Disney Channel (Eloise at Christmastime). It was a cute movie. Now we are going to bed!

Weekly Review December 5 '09

There's still something messed up with my computer--I still can't move photographs around. Last week I got a virus; Frank was able to get rid of it, but he had to reset my computer and ever since a bunch of things haven't been working the way they used to. So, until he figures out what's going on, I guess all my photos will be at the beginning of my posts.

The stockings are hung!

First snowfall of the year--we got about 1 1/2 inches.

Welcoming wreath

Mistletoe--Frank & I tested it out. It works!

Christmas knick knacks--nearly everything on the shelf was given to us!

Earlier today, when the snow first started to stick.

Snow just starting to come down.

This Sunday was kind of crazy, as they usually are. Frank was still feeling terrible, so he stayed home from church. I had a busy sharing time that day, but it all turned out great. I picked gratitude for the topic, and focused on being grateful for our teachers. I had purchased plain white plates at the dollar store—one for each teacher—and we had the kids sign their names around the edges of the plates with some special pens. (Once they dry, you bake the plates and it makes the writing permanent.) There were a lot of plates to do (22) because I also got plates for the pianist and music leader, as well as for several teachers who were just recently released. We managed to get it all done, though, and the plates look really cute. I asked a member of our ward who is artistic and has beautiful handwriting to write “Thank You for Feeding Our Souls” in the middle of each plate. We are going to make treats to put on the plates and give them to all the teachers next Sunday.

This week has not been quite as busy as some, although I can’t say I found myself at a loss of things to do! There’s just not a lot to write about. On Tuesday I locked Seth and I out of the house—Frank had to come rescue us! Luckily, we were able to sit in the car while we waited for him because it was really pretty chilly that day. He had gone to work at 4:00 am and he had to go back after he let us into the house, so it was a long day for him. Wednesday evening I had a Primary presidency meeting while the boys were at scouts and on Thursday I took Scott to the orthodontist and interviewed one of the Primary girls who just turned twelve. That’s about it! I’ve been busy with other Primary stuff and the usual household chores. I’ve also been trying to finish the book for book chat. It’s called Gilead, and I’m really enjoying it, but I haven’t had a lot of free moments to read.

Seth has not been feeling his best this week which means he hasn’t always slept very well. He’s had a bit of a runny nose, has felt warm, and has been a lot crabbier than usual. It could be worse, though—I’m grateful it’s not! I’m also grateful that Frank started feeling better on Monday so he’s been able to work all week.

Today it is snowing!! Whenever I’ve heard the song “It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas” this last week, I’ve said “No it’s not.” But now it is! It started out as “slushy rain” before we woke up this morning, but by 9:00 it had turned to snow. Now it’s about 2:30, and we have an inch or two and it’s still coming down hard. I am not a huge fan of snow, as you all know, but I have to admit it’s pretty. Everyone else is THRILLED to get snow, especially the boys who are hoping they’ll get out of school on Monday (I doubt it)!

With the snow coming down outside, it’s been the perfect day to get out the boxes and start putting up all the Christmas decorations. We may even manage to get the tree up before the day is over. We also drew names this morning for our “secret service” which we do for each other during the month of December. This is a tradition we started a couple of years ago and it has become a favorite. The idea is to try to do small acts of service for and to be especially nice to the person whose name you draw. We also give each person a few dollars to buy a few treats for their person, so we made a trip to the store to pick out treats. The kids get a kick out of smuggling treats onto each other’s pillows or into stockings. We decided to do something different this year instead of our usual “Twelve Days of Christmas” secret service. Because there are many people in our ward in need (but we’re not sure who all of them are) we asked the kids if it would be ok with them if we used the money we normally would spend on 12 Days of Christmas gifts and donate it to our ward’s Christmas fund. They were all ok with doing that, so that’s what we are going to do. We still plan to pick one or two families and leave a plate of goodies on their doorstep, so they will still have the fun of ringing the doorbell and running!!

Frank did some more shopping this afternoon (he loves going out in the snow) and now he is replacing the doorknobs on our front and back doors. They were getting old and not turning very easily any more, so it will be nice to have new ones. I am going to get an extra key made to keep in the car, in case I lock myself out of the house again!

Well, this one is short but I’m sure you are all relieved that I kept it down to a few words for once!

Weekly Review November 28 '09

I'm going to start this post with photos--not because I want to, but because I can't get the photos to move for some reason, and I am too impatient to mess with them any more! They are in backwards order, for the same reason.

Look out! He's a teenager now!


Seth's head met the fruit salad



Front view of the "fruit salad look"

Let's eat!

This one is better of a few people!

The boy with his new "toys"

Waiting to open his presents

Now here's the review:

Sundays are always busy days, and this one was no exception. Besides church, I had Ward Council before church, a visiting teaching appointment right after church, and the Priesthood Preview that evening. This event was not terribly stressful for me—I had to do some planning ahead of time, getting it organized and providing refreshments—but once I was there, all I had to do was sit there and enjoy it. I had asked one of the boys to talk a few minutes about what he could do to prepare to receive the priesthood, and he did a fabulous job—really, one of the best talks I’ve ever heard about the priesthood. Our bishop also talked to the boys. He sells physical therapy equipment for a living, and he used a little device he has for an object lesson about the power of the priesthood. This device uses electrical impulses to stimulate muscles—basically, he could get Jared to lift up his hand without Jared doing anything! The boys got a big kick out of that and I’m sure they won’t forget the object lesson for a long time. Anyway, I was really happy with how it all turned out with the exception that one of the boys that I was really hoping would come didn’t make it. On the way home from that, we stopped at my friend Rebecca’s house—her husband, Mark, had called Frank with a computer problem, so Frank looked at his computer while Rebecca and I visited a little bit.

The rest of this week was busy with Thanksgiving preparations. I moved around all my regular chores since I normally go to the grocery store on Thursdays. I got my hair done on Tuesday. We invited 2 families in our ward to come for Thanksgiving, but one family couldn’t make it, so we had a fairly small crowd, for us. The boys were out of school starting on Wednesday and Frank took Wednesday through Friday off work also. Wednesday was busy getting some of the cooking done in advance, as well as picking up some tables and chairs from the church and doing some general cleaning / tidying around the house to prepare for guests. I am glad Frank was home to help with all of that! I got the sweet potato casserole and a chocolate pudding pie made. Frank did the rest of the pies—pumpkin, peach, and strawberry—as well as a banana pudding dish. The strawberry pie was actually turnovers, and Frank made homemade pie crust for those as well as for the peach pie. The pumpkin pie had a store-bought crust, and really—there is just no comparison! Frank’s homemade crust was 10 times better!

Thursday was also Tanner’s birthday, so in the morning he opened his presents. He got a movie, a game, and the first season of Star Wars Clone Wars on DVD. He seemed to be happy with everything and enjoyed watching some of the Star Wars show that morning before the guests arrived, as well as playing the new game.

We got a call from Frank’s sister that morning also, telling us that Frank’s mom was in the hospital and they thought that she may have had a heart attack (she had pain in her left arm and felt pressure on her chest). That was a worry to us, of course! Thankfully, after running tests, they determined that her potassium was low and nothing more. We hope she is feeling rested and a lot better now.

Frank was a bit concerned Thursday morning when he pulled the turkey out of the refrigerator and discovered that it was still somewhat frozen. But we did a little quick thawing in water and it turned out fine—as a matter of fact, it got done about 2 hours earlier than we’d planned! We put together a green bean casserole and made some rolls and gravy also. Our friends, the Days, brought stuffing, mashed potatoes, drinks, and fruit salad so we had lots of yummy food, as always. The Days have three young children—Devon, Tyler, and Kaitlyn. Devon (age 5) was a little nervous about Snickers, but Tyler (age 3) was unphased and Kaitlyn (almost 1) was pretty fascinated by him. We had a good time, eating and playing games, and all the kids got along really well. Tanner was eating some of the fruit salad later, in the living room (which he wasn’t supposed to do) and Seth managed to put his head in Tanner’s plate. It was a good photo op, though: see photos above! Then Seth got a bath!

I would have had more fun than I did if my stomach hadn’t been bothering me all day. I didn’t feel nauseated and I was able to eat, but it just felt all knotted up and as the day wore on it kept getting worse. Shortly after the Days went home, it got much worse and then the nausea hit. I was really quite sick for several hours and couldn’t do anything except lie in bed. I drifted off a few times, but would wake up and get sick again. Not fun! My back and kidneys, as well as my stomach were also hurting. I very rarely get the stomach flu, but it seems like the last couple of times that I have it’s been much more severe, with pretty intense pain. Thankfully, sometime around midnight I finally went to sleep for a while. I woke up once more sometime in the night, still hurting, but didn’t get sick again. When I woke up Friday morning, I felt a lot better. I just took it easy that day, for the most part, and didn’t eat very much. (No Thanksgiving leftovers for me!)

Frank bravely took all the boys shopping at Wal-Mart Friday morning and was able to acquire some very inexpensive Christmas gifts. He also got some clothes for the boys and a much needed new coat for himself, also at rock-bottom prices. He got a jacket for me also, but realized after he got home that he had grabbed an extra large instead of a small, as he had intended! He had to take that back, but they were out of size smalls, so I’ll have to go back to get one that fits another day. That afternoon, Tanner’s friend Matt came over to play and spend the night. We ordered pizza and had Tanner’s cake, also. (No pizza or cake for me, though!) After we sang to Tanner and finished his cake, Scott and Jared both went to spend the night with friends—Scott with Ryan and Jared with Bryson. That gave Tanner more one-on-one time with Matt, which was nice for him, I think.

This morning the boys had leftover pizza and pie for breakfast! Frank had the more traditional biscuits and gravy, and I had an egg because that’s about all I dared to try. This has been a pretty relaxed Saturday, as far as Saturdays go. We really didn’t have a ton of things to do—for once! Matt went home around 11:00 and I went to pick up the other two boys around 2:00. I had to make another Wal-Mart trip (we go to that store far too often) because we discovered we were all out of toilet paper! Besides that, I finished up preparations for Sharing Time tomorrow and Frank and I went to look at a couple of houses.

Actually, we ended up looking at three houses. They were all in the same neighborhood and all of them were foreclosures; kind of sad. However, they were the best three possibilities we’ve looked at yet, since they had almost everything we are looking for—fenced yards, family rooms, storage space, space for an office, larger bedrooms for the kids. Frank and I both liked the first two houses we looked at; particularly the second one which was roomier and had a beautiful front porch (although it was filthy!). Frank didn’t like the third house so we’re ruling it out although I thought it was ok. Both houses needed floors replaced and painting done, but that wouldn’t be a big deal. The main drawback to both of them is that the kitchens would need to be re-done, and that would be a big expense. I’m not sure we’d be able to manage that. Also, because they’re foreclosures, the banks won’t accept any contingencies and we really wouldn’t be very comfortable putting in an offer without a contingency that our house sells. So we are thinking about it, but I have a feeling we don’t have a lot of time to think—those houses will probably sell fast. But that’s ok—I’m just not willing to hurry into a big decision like this!

Unfortunately, by the time we got home from looking at houses, Frank wasn’t feeling too well, and he has continued to get worse this evening. He definitely seems to have the same thing that I’m still getting over—poor guy!

I’ve enjoyed reading about some of the things all of you are thankful for lately. I haven’t had a chance to write a “Thankful Thursday” for a while, but that doesn’t mean I’m not feeling thankful! (Just busy.) It seems ironic to me, especially, that I didn’t post a “Thankful Thursday” on Thanksgiving, of all days. As you know, however, I spent that evening curled up in bed feeling very sick! I do remember thinking at that time, though, how thankful I am that I am usually very healthy! I am also thankful for all of you and the efforts you make to keep in touch.

Now bring on the joys of Christmas!!

Weekly Review November 21 '09

This has been an expensive week. On Tuesday I noticed the battery warning light on the Expedition had come on when I went to pick up the boys from school. The next morning, the car started, but then all the lights went out. Frank took the battery out and took it to have it tested—it was dead. So he bought a new battery and put it in, but the warning light was still on, so he had to replace the alternator also. Luckily, Frank was able to do all the work himself—that saved us a bit. It was also fortunate that the weather was sunny and fairly mild temperatures that day—the next day it got a lot colder and it rained buckets! The car works great now and an added bonus—it’s been making an annoying squeaking noise for months and that noise is gone now. We thought we had a belt loose somewhere, but it turns out it was part of the alternator that was making that noise.

On Thursday the television quit working. The screen wouldn’t come on at all. We’ve had that television for several years—probably close to 10 years—so I guess it was time for it to go. We decided to go do some price comparisons Thursday evening and we found a good deal, so we ended up buying a new television that evening. We talked about waiting until after Thanksgiving, when I’m sure there will be some good deals—it wouldn’t kill us to go without a television for a week (or longer)! But then we remembered that Tanner’s birthday is also on Thanksgiving and everything we got for him requires a television (movies and video games)! So we didn’t figure it would go over too well with him if we waited. We’ve now joined the 21st century—we have a flat screen television! That’s the only kind they sell these days, apparently. It is nice, and the boys pointed out to me that the gaming systems can now be stored in the cabinet behind the television, so now I’m totally sold on it. It seems like repairs / replacements always come in threes, so I’m waiting to see what’s going to break next! (Please—let it be something small and inexpensive.)

Besides all that, Frank and I also went out and did almost all of the Christmas shopping the first couple of days of this week. After the television broke, we decided that we really are done except for letting the boys get something for each other! I hope the boys will be happy with what we decided to do this year—I think they will be. It’s nice to have most of that done so December will be less hectic and we can enjoy the Christmas season to the fullest.

Besides all the shopping, my visiting teachers came to see me Monday, I had book chat on Tuesday, a Primary presidency meeting on Wednesday morning (we had to move it to my house, since that was the day the Expedition was being fixed) and I went visiting teaching on Thursday. I had some shopping to do for Primary, also—Priesthood Preview refreshments and supplies for a project I’m going to have the kids do for their teachers next Sunday. Seth has been a real trooper, being dragged from store to store and having his nap schedule all messed up.

Speaking of Seth, he has become adept at climbing out of his crib, which is nice in some ways and not nice in others. No more yelling for me when he wakes up in the morning or after naps—he just climbs out of the crib and comes to find me. If I make sure he’s pretty tired by the time I put him down at night, he usually stays in the crib and goes to sleep. For naps, I have always got him to sleep before putting him down (it’s our special “snuggle time”) so that hasn’t been a problem. However, we are worried that climbing out of the crib is potentially dangerous, so we decided it’s time to get him a toddler bed. The nice thing is, we didn’t have to buy one because about a week ago Frank went to help another member of our ward put together and move a bunk bed, and they mentioned that they had just got a regular bed for their little boy and had his toddler bed available, which they were planning to give away. Frank came home and told me about it, but I was reluctant to give up the crib at that point. Within a few days, Seth started climbing out of his crib, though! So on Thursday we stopped at our friends’ house on the way home from buying the television and we brought the toddler bed home with us also. It is car shaped, so Seth is very excited about it!!!

On Monday we remembered to call the police about Scott’s bike. They said a bike fitting our description had just been turned in that morning, so after school I took Scott over there to see if it was his bike, but it wasn’t. He didn’t use the bike much, so he wasn’t too disappointed, but it would be nice to get it back. I’m guessing even if he does get it back, however, that it probably won’t be in the best condition.

Back to Sunday—it was a very busy day. I had choir before church and after church I barely had time to grab something to eat and then I was off to visit one of the families with Primary children in our ward. This family lives about 20 minutes away, so that added to the time it took, but my secretary went with me and we enjoyed visiting with each other on the way there and back. After I got home we had dinner and family night. Sundays always seem busy to me—even if I don’t have extra meetings or visits, I always feel like I have a lot of people that I need to talk to for one reason or another. I found out this week that I’m getting one more new teacher on Sunday and losing another one, which means I’ve now lost 5 teachers and only gained 3 new ones. However, it has worked out that two of the classes that had 2 teachers before are going to be ok with just one teacher, so we should be fine and it seems like (finally, for the first time since I got this calling!) that we are fully staffed. Let’s see how long it lasts—I’m hoping for at least a week or two!

Friday was our stake’s annual “Temple Jubilee” which means we all try to go to the temple that day (stay all day or part of the day, if possible), so Frank and I went to the temple that evening. Our original plan was to go as soon as the boys got home from school (2:45 on Fridays) but one of Frank’s clients had a problem come up that took a long time to fix, so he was late. We also had to drop off a computer at another client’s house in Rockville on our way down, so in the end we made it to the 6:00 session. We’re glad we made it, though. There were 7 other people from our ward and 2 or 3 people from our stake in the same session with us, which made it particularly nice. We saw several people we knew as we arrived and left the temple as well, and we even saw an old friend from Delaware (Brother Moyes, Carrie!) which is always a treat.

There’s not a lot to say about today except that we kept busy getting lots of little things done. This evening we all watched the newest Star Trek movie. I thought it was pretty good. I was frustrated for the first half of the movie, though, trying to figure out where I’d seen the actor who plays James T. Kirk before. Scott finally figured it out for me—he’s “Sir Nicholas” in Princess Diaries 2—so I enjoyed the rest of the movie! Now if you see the movie, you won’t be bothered like I was; aren’t you grateful we figured that out for you?!

I’ll finish up this week with some fall photos, taken from our back deck. We are still periodically enjoying some sunny warmer days—we’re grateful for that. Everyone have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Did You Really Just Say That?

When I climbed in the car yesterday morning, the radio was on. There was some kind of discussion going on where people could call in with their opinions. I don't know what the discussion was about, exactly, because I only heard the end of one caller's comments and the beginning of the next caller's comments, but I was totally floored by what I heard. Here's what I heard (paraphrased a little; I can't remember the exact words used):

First female caller: "...I have definitely felt pressured to do things that I wasn't comfortable doing in order to save the relationship."

Second female caller: "I agree with her (first caller). I'd say over the last 10 years I have definitely noticed a change in what men expect of women. Don't get me wrong--I'm not saying that porn is unhealthy..."

What? What did you just say?!

I felt like a ton of bricks just fell on my head! I think it would be hard for me to put into words why these comments bothered me so much, but here are a few reasons, just for starters:

1. Apparently we live in a society where women, not just men, are making excuses and / or justifying an evil thing.
2. Women are justifying this evil thing in spite of the fact that they see it having an effect on their lives, and in spite of the fact that the effect it's having on them is not positive. Are they blind?!
3. Satan has obviously convinced a lot of people that a blatant lie ("pornography is not harmful--in fact, it's normal and healthy") is true.
4. Pornography is destroying normal, healthy relationships and very few people seem to realize that.
5. Pornography destroys souls and ruins lives.
6. Pornography is addictive.
7. Pornography leads to crime and violence.
8. If left unchecked, pornography could very well lead to the downfall of our society / civilization.

I turned off the radio, because I couldn't stand to listen to any more. But my two middle boys and I had a discussion on the way to school about everything that was wrong with those comments. I asked them "What does the prophet have to say about pornography?" and I was pleased that they gave responses like this: "It's evil." "It's wrong." "It destroys people." "We have to stay far away from it."

Whew! I feel a little bit better now....

Weekly Review November 14 '09

Happy Birthday, Mom!!

Sunday was kind of crazy again, with more changes. By the time I got home, I had a lot of new information to process to try to figure out how I was going to get the right people in the places I need them. But after sitting down and thinking about it (and praying about it) on Monday, things started falling into place. I love it when that happens, because that’s always a sign that I’m on the right track—putting the right people in the right places. Hopefully it will all work out the way I think it should! Another thing that has really helped—one of my new teachers sent me an e-mail saying she loved her new class and “please don’t split them”! I had told her I was going to split the class I gave to her because there are 11 kids who are all there every week, and about half of them have behavioral issues. They are good kids, but still a difficult class. I had a feeling this new teacher was just the right person for them; I’m so glad it seems to be working out. I’m giving her a couple more weeks with all of them to make sure that’s really what she wants to do. If that works out, though, it means I have to find one less teacher, which will help a lot.

After church our home teachers came to see us and then Frank and the two oldest boys had Stake Priesthood Meeting. My friend Marci called me while they were gone, needing a favor. They had accidentally left their kids’ birth certificates and immunization records at their house and they needed them so they could enroll their kids in their new schools. So Frank and I went over to their house after he got home to get those items (she told me where to find them) and the next day I sent them to her FedEx.

Besides sending the FedEx, I had several other errands to do that morning, and Seth and I took Snickers on a long walk also. (It was very nice on Sunday and Monday—in the 80’s!! We loved it!) Frank met me at the FedEx place and we went to lunch before he had to go back to work and I took Seth home for his nap.

I’ve had a lot of Primary stuff to do this week—working on the Priesthood Preview, figuring out staffing, meetings (more on that later), planning a gift for the kids to make for their teachers, and it’s still my month for Sharing Time. All of that has kept me very busy. I’ve also been trying to read the book for book chat (short stories by Leo Tolstoy) and I did finally finish the first story (The Death of Ivan Ilyich) and started the second one (Master and Man) but I doubt I’m going to get through the other two before Tuesday. I’ve enjoyed what I’ve read, but I just haven’t had enough time to read more.

On Tuesday the weather started cooling down and then the rain came and it’s been pretty cold and dreary. At least we aren’t getting flooded like our neighbors to the south, though! Frank worked pretty long hours on Tuesday and Wednesday. He also had a dentist appointment on Tuesday afternoon—everything looks good. They didn’t even bring up the two teeth that they told him previously need crowns, which leaves us wondering if he still needs that done or if they were incorrect the first time. I told Frank he needs to call them back and ask about it because I actually saved up enough for him to have those done. I think he should get it done now, while we have a way to pay for it! If they say he’s ok, I’m sure I can find something else to do with that money…Christmas is coming up, after all!

Jared had a field trip on Wednesday where they had a “Guatemalan” experience—they were outside all day and they cooked authentic Guatemalan food and learned to play games that kids played there. Sounds pretty cool to me, although I’m sure they got cold and wet. That evening I took the boys to scouts as usual. I stayed at the church until they were done because I’d been asked to come to the cub scouts’ den meeting to represent a “hero”—moms, that is. I also had an appointment to talk with the bishop about some Primary things, so by the time I did both of those things everyone else was almost done. The scouts started working on the Disability Awareness Merit Badge, and since Jared is an 11 year old scout now, they were all 3 doing the same thing.

Wednesday was also Snickers’ birthday—he’s one year old now! Since he really needs some good dog toys to chew on (in lieu of chewing on Seth’s toys), I bought him a couple of toys as well as a sweater (since it’s getting cold). Pampered animal! We really do love him, though, and hope he is happy with us. Training to go “potty” outside is working out pretty well, by the way. He just needs to figure out a way to let us know when he needs to go out. Right now we are still just taking him out several times a day, trying to guess when he needs to go out!

On Thursday I decided I really had to go through all Seth’s clothes because I was having a hard time finding something to put on him that wasn’t too small. I considered going out to buy him some clothes that morning, but decided to wait and make sure I didn’t have a few things that would fit him put away somewhere. I’m glad I decided to wait, because when I looked I did find a few things and then when I called my friend Christine to tell her I had some clothes to give her (she had let me know that a friend of hers could use things Seth grows out of) she said she had some things to bring me—mostly pants, size 3T—which is exactly what I need for Seth. She brought me some shirts, too, so I don’t have to get anything new after all, which helps. Thursday evening I went visiting teaching; I have a new companion and all new people to visit this month.

On Friday I had some special meetings to go to for Primary. The General Primary President, General YW President, and a member of the General Relief Society Board are all here in our area this week end to do training. Sister Lant (General Primary President) did home visits with three mothers and their children in our stake—two of them were in our ward; I am really happy that two of our families got to have that experience! I was invited on Friday afternoon to attend a focus group with Sister Lant, along with about 14 other people from my stake (mostly Primary presidents, but a few counselors and a teacher as well). It was really nice—we got to talk in a small group about some of our questions and concerns, and discussed some things we can do that might help. Sister Lant told us that we are facing the same challenges here that other Primaries are dealing with all over the world. She also said that she was a ward Primary president once but she wouldn’t want to be now because she thinks it is getting a lot harder, because the children are much stronger these days (ie: stubborn!) After that meeting was over, I had a chance to talk with Sister Lant for a minute, and I told her that her husband used to be our bishop. She said “I thought you looked familiar, but I didn’t remember where I’d seen you before!” I went home for dinner, and then I had another meeting at the stake center from 7:30 to 9:30. This meeting was for stake leaders and Primary, YW, and Relief Society ward leaders from six stakes in our area, so there were a lot of people there. We met in the chapel first, where we got to hear brief remarks from all three of the visiting women as well as Elder Hardy, a member of the Quorum of the Seventy. Then we broke out into groups for each auxiliary, and we got more training from Sister Lant. It was really good and inspiring, and I am excited to use some of the things that I learned to help our Primary. I think we are very fortunate to have had this opportunity, and especially lucky that we didn’t have to drive very far to get to these meetings (many of the people who attended had to drive an hour or two to get there).

Last night Tanner and Scott were busy also—they had a night hike (it rained again, but not as hard as last time, so it wasn’t cancelled again) and then they went to their scoutmaster’s house for a “camp out”. I put that in quotes because it rained a lot more, so they all ended up sleeping inside. Apparently they didn’t get much sleep. Then in the morning they all went to pick up the “Scouting for Food” contributions. I picked up Tanner at 10:00, but the older kids (including Scott) went to the food bank to help deliver and sort all the contributions. The YW always help with the sorting, also. Frank picked Scott up later, at 1:30. Both Scott and Tanner were very tired and both took naps, but we didn’t let them sleep very long because we want them to sleep tonight!

Jared had his friend Sage over to play all day. Sage’s mom had to work all day, so she asked if he could come play with Jared instead of going with her and being bored. That worked out well for us, since we still hadn’t made Jared’s birthday cake because he wanted to have a couple of friends over to share it. So his friend Bryson came over later and we had dinner and cake. The weather was fairly mild today (although still a bit wet and gray) so they were able to play outside quite a bit, which was nice.

Jared with friends Sage & Bryson

Seth decided to help himself to more cake later—Frank caught him red handed, the little monkey! No remorse!

The cake is looking a bit worse for wear--ok, actually the frosting was the main victim!

Frank was busy this morning putting caulk on the crown molding in our bedroom so we can paint it. (The molding has been up for a long time, as in several years—this is an unfinished project that we are FINALLY finishing. I hope, that is—it’s not finished yet!) He did a good job—it looks very nice. I kept busy today, too—mostly housework and Primary stuff. Seth didn’t have much of a nap today. He was sound asleep when I put him down in his crib, but a few minutes later we were very surprised to hear his little voice as he came down the stairs “Mom and Dad, it’s time to get up!” He finally figured out that he can climb out of the crib—rats! My life is over. When I put him in his crib tonight, though, he was still awake and he stayed there, so maybe there is hope.

Seth has started using the word “sure” in a cute way. I guess because we’ll ask him a question like “Are you hungry?” and then when he responds we’ll often say “Are you sure?” So now he says things like “I sure do want to watch a movie”, especially if he’s already asked and I’ve said “no”! One day this week he was looking out the window and told me he saw “some Chip and Dales”. Actually, I’m guessing what he really saw was squirrels, but that’s close to chipmunks, right? A new vocabulary word I noticed him using this week—“microphone”. Seth usually talks very clearly, but sometimes he is hard to understand. There is one phrase that he has been using frequently over the last month or so, and none of us can figure out what he’s saying. It sounds something like “Icka ba heada”. It’s driving all of us crazy, because we just can’t tell what he’s saying, but we’re sure he really does mean something! He says it the most while we are at the dinner table, but he does use it at other random times; tonight he said that to me while he was in the bathtub. Maybe some day we will figure it out! If you have any bright ideas, let us know.

Now it’s late and tomorrow is going to be a busy day, so I’d better get this posted so I can go to bed! My heart has been quite “fluttery” today and when my heart acts up, I get tired easily. I’m not sure why it’s been that way today—I have not felt it like this since I was pregnant with Seth. I will keep an eye on things and get checked again if it doesn’t improve. It seems to have calmed down right at the moment, thankfully.