I'm surprised at how many notes I jotted down for this week. I guess we did have quite a bit going on.
Saturday, August 15th: This was a busy day with lots of errands and chores. I had a haircut appointment first thing in the morning. After that, I ran some errands; Frank came with me even though his foot was hurting a lot. We went to Walmart to get a few things we needed first. We also planned to visit the Fed Ex office that is there, but we discovered that it is closed on Saturdays. We needed to go to Costco too and I remembered that there was another Fed Ex office in between Walmart and Costco, so we stopped there and it was open and we were able to mail the letter we were sending. Then we went to Costco (Frank was able to use one of those motorized carts at both Walmart and Costco) to get protein shakes for Frank (and of course we found a few other things to buy while we were there).
I spent quite a bit of time working on stuff for the Labor Day picnic and for the next RS activity. I forgot to mention last week that I didn't meet with the sister in my ward to learn how to create and post flyers on Monday because she woke up feeling sick that day and didn't want to give it to me. But she did offer to create flyers for the Labor Day Picnic and the RS activity for me and send them to me for my approval. The flyers are beautiful! On Saturday I decided to see if I could figure out how to post them in Circles (we use this app for communicating in our ward), and after a little trial and error, I figured it out. I also printed up hard copies of both flyers to be distributed on Sunday. I created a sign up genius for the Labor Day picnic and sent a link to that to one of the ward clerks so he could email it out to the ward members. I also made a hard copy sign up to be sent around at church, because I know not everyone in our ward uses email / online stuff. Since I wasn't going to be at our meetings on Sunday, I took the flyers for the Labor Day picnic to my friend Rebekah to be distributed with the Sunday programs because she's in charge of the Sunday program / ward bulletin. I also arranged with the RS presidency to leave the flyers for the RS activity and the hard copy of the Labor Day picnic sign up sheet in their closet so that they could pass it around for me on Sunday.
Besides all that, I also practiced ukulele, cleaned the kitchen floor, made some muffins (ones that I can eat!) and read some John Adams whenever I had a few minutes. I was finally contacted by the stake executive secretary on Saturday morning saying that one of the counselors in the stake presidency would be in my building on Sunday and would look for me during my regular ward meeting block so that he could set me apart. But since I wasn't going to be there for our regular meetings (I was going with Frank to a speaking assignment), there had to be some messages going back and forth to work something else out. I told him that I could meet earlier, and that's what we ended up deciding to do. We met at 11:00 am, before Frank and I had to leave for his speaking assignment.
Besides all of those things, it was also an important day for Scott (his birthday--we gifted him some money to help him buy a motorcycle helmet and also sent him some little cakes from a place that we know he likes) and for Jessie, because she graduated with her Master's degree. Woohoo for Jessie!
I promise not every day this week had that much going on!
Sunday, August 16th: As I mentioned, on Sunday morning I was set apart as a service missionary by one of the counselors in the stake presidency. Frank and Seth were both able to assist. I received a beautiful blessing--not all of which I can remember, but a few things I do remember is he said that Heavenly Father loves me & is pleased with me and that I will be able to feel His love for me and for others, and that my children would be blessed by my service in ways that I can't imagine. I was also blessed with the ability to do all the things I need to do in order to serve in this capacity. These are all things that I needed to hear, and I am grateful!
Frank's speaking assignment was at the Severn YSA ward, which is in Odenton, Maryland--very close to Fort Meade. It rained hard on the way there, which I didn't enjoy driving in, but we made it there fine. It was kind of fun to see another YSA ward--it was definitely a lot bigger than the one in Frederick (which is actually a branch). Frank did a good job on his talk.
After we got back and Seth got home from his church meetings, we had family night. Later on, Tanner called and we were able to talk for a little while. Then I read John Adams and finally finished it! And a good thing, too, because I got an email from the library on Saturday saying it was going to be due in a few days. The library has a system so that books are automatically renewed indefinitely, unless someone else requests a copy, so I guess someone else wants to read it now. I'm grateful that didn't happen before I was finished reading it.
Monday, August 17th: Frank worked from home again, although thankfully his foot started looking a lot better on Monday--not nearly so red & swollen. It still hurts, though, although not as much as it did at first. One of the main reasons he hasn't been going in to work is because the place he has to park is about half a mile from his office, and he doesn't feel up to walking that far. The doctor filled out a form so that he could get a temporary handicap parking permit, but it takes a while to process. He did finally get that in the mail on Monday, which was perfect timing because he wanted to go into work on Tuesday and go to the temple for his shift afterwards. The handicap parking permit allows him to park in a parking lot right next to the building where he works.
It was super humid on Monday morning and in the evening we got a lot of rain. (We've actually had quite a bit of rain this week). I got regular chores done in the morning (laundry, groceries, vacuuming) and I also did some deep cleaning in the kitchen (will need to do more of that!), returned John Adams to the library, and put gas in Frank's car so that he wouldn't have to do it. Seth worked (he worked every week day this week but has the weekend off). I got to talk to Scott for a few minutes, which was nice since I hadn't talked to him since we were in Utah. We didn't have family night activity because Frank needed to get to bed early. Before he went to bed, he helped me move a bunch of pictures and other files off of my laptop onto my external hard drive. Then I spent quite a while going through my email account and deleting old emails. We did this because I knew I would need to free up some space for my mission work.
We had a nice sunset Monday evening:
Tuesday, August 18th: I had a hard time falling asleep Monday night--didn't fall asleep until nearly midnight. Then the alarm went off for Frank at 3:30 am and I didn't fall back asleep until about 5:30; then I slept until 7:30. That means 5 hours of interrupted sleep, which wasn't great but certainly that's not the first time that's happened to me! I wasn't super productive, but I did get the regular chores done (cleaning bathrroms and meal planning). Also, a technician from Family Search called and got my laptop set up with all the things I need for my mission. I listened to some Follow Him podcast; I did a little bit of coloring while listening (the rest of the time I was cleaning bathrooms).
I've been wanting to start working on the dollhouse again, and Tuesday was the first opportunity I had. The next step was gluing on all the porch pieces--railings, posts, and decorative trim--and I was feeling anxious about that because the posts weren't fitting well and I was afraid I was going to end up with a mess! So I decided to skip that step and start preparing pieces for the next step, which is assembling the roof / top floor (the dollhouse has a mansard roof, so the walls for the third floor are also roof pieces on the outside). I painted the first coat of the roof ledge trim and the first coat of the 3rd story walls.
On Tuesday I also started reading Sense & Sensibility. I was able to get a digital copy of that book. As I mentioned, Frank worked his temple shift. They assigned him to be the initiatory coordinator, so he was able to sit down for all of his shift.
Wednesday, August 19th: I woke up at 4:00 am, but at least I slept well until then. Frank went in early to get his blood drawn--he does this periodically to get his blood sugar and cholesterol checked, but they also checked his uric acid levels. (His blood sugar and cholesterol look good; his uric acid level is still a little high--which probably explains why his foot still hurts--so he is taking medication to help with that.)
I made bread and I worked on the dollhouse some more, while listening to Follow Him podcast episodes (I'm getting caught up on episodes I missed in July). I sanded the pieces I painted on Tuesday and then painted the 2nd coat on those pieces. Before painting the 2nd coat on the 3rd story walls, I marked the shingle placement lines on the opposite side (the roof side). I also remembered that I had not yet painted the 2nd coat on the top tower side pieces, so I did that too. I was "on a roll" and starting to feel more confident about assembling the porch posts, railings, and trim. I decided to try filing the porch posts a little bit to see if I could get them to fit better. That seemed to do the trick--they are still tight, but they fit between the porch floors and ceilings now (and I want them to be tight--just not too tight). I wanted to go ahead and assemble the porch pieces, but I was out of time and planned to do that later in the evening.
Roof pieces with shingle marks (my quilter's ruler came in REALLY handy for marking these!):
In the meantime, I had an appointment to talk with the 1st Counselor in the RS presidency about activities. I had several questions which I sent her earlier that day and they discussed them at their presidency meeting and then she was able to give me feedback, which was helpful.
While I was talking to her, I got a phone call from another friend in the ward, so I called her back when I got off the phone. Remember I mentioned last week that a group of us are helping a lady in our ward and her children get to work and back? Well, I was supposed to be picking up two of her kids from school (it was the first day of school on Wednesday and they don't have the bus situation figured out yet) and then pick her up from work and take them all home (which is at a hotel, currently--they aren't at the campground any more). The friend that called me had been asked to do the same thing, and she had just found out that I was also expecting to do that, so she called me so we could clear that up. This actually happened last week, too--the same friend and I were double booked to do the same pick up! (And thankfully, last week we also discovered the mistake in time to correct it.) I have to admit that I was feeling pretty frustrated by the whole situation on both Tuesday and Wednesday. I won't go into all the details, but the short version is that I thought I would only be taking this sister to work in the mornings each Thursday, but instead I have ended up, last minute, providing rides at other times. And then there's been all this confusion with double booking, and all the changes and confusion have ended up taking up a lot of time to work out. I actually agreed on Tuesday to do the Wednesday pick up, thinking that I would have a car because Frank works from home on Wednesdays. But I forgot that he was planning to do some work for a client in Virginia that afternoon (he told me about it on Sunday, but it wasn't on the calendar, so I forgot). He didn't remind me until he got home from the temple late Tuesday night that he needed the car Wednesday afternoon, so we had some juggling to do. Thankfully, he was planning to leave around 1:30 and Seth needed to be at work at 2:00, so it worked out that he could drop Seth off at work on his way out of Frederick, it just meant that I would have to pick Seth up later when he got off work. Frank and Seth had already left by the time my friend called, and it was almost time for me to leave to pick the kids up from school, so I told my friend that I would go ahead and do the pick up as I had planned. The car line situation at their high school was strange, but I did manage to find them, then picked up their mom at work (we had to wait a while--she was finishing up some things) and got them all back to their hotel. Also, there was some discussion among those of us who have been helping, and the RS service leader decided to set up a Google calendar to keep track of all the rides and that is going to help a lot with the organization and planning going forward--I think we will avoid the double booking and last minute changes from now on, so that makes me happy.
After dropping this sister and her children off, I decided since I was already out & about, I would go to a store that sells locally produced jams. I've shopped there in the past, and a few days ago I suddenly remembered that they had "juice sweetened" jams, which might mean they didn't have added sugar. I wanted to find out, because jam without added sugar is okay for my diet. Sure enough, when I checked the labels, I discovered that the juice sweetened jam has no added sugar, so I bought 3 flavors to try, and now I can put something besides honey on my bread. It is ridiculous how happy that makes me! (I've tried the blueberry jam so far, and it is delicious!)
When I was leaving the store, Frank called to say he was almost back to Frederick, and he suggested I meet him at Chick-fil-A so that we could leave my car for Seth when he got off work and I could ride home with Frank. I thought that was a good idea, so I drove to Chick-fil-A and left the car in the adjacent Walmart parking lot (that's where they want the employees to park, because the Chick-fil-A parking lot is small) and walked over to Chick-fil-A to give Seth the car key and for Frank to pick me up. Unfortunately, when I was stepping into the parking lot, my foot caught on a ledge and I tripped and fell hard onto the asphalt. I scraped both knees and bruised both of my hands. My dignity was also tarnished...I must have fallen pretty spectacularly, because two complete strangers in the parking lot asked me with great concern if I was okay. It was nice of them, but I just wanted everyone to ignore me because I felt so stupid! Frank was arriving right about that time, and he also saw me fall. When we got home, I washed all my scrapes and bandaged my left knee (my left side took more of the brunt of the fall than the right side).
Grease marks on my shorts; thankfully they came out in the wash:
Frank and I made dinner, both of us hobbling around the kitchen! Seth came home from work and then went to Institute (they also feed him dinner before class starts). I had planned to work more on the dollhouse, but I was feeling too sore and achy all over after my fall. (Such a bummer, when I was finally gaining some momentum.) I watched a few You Tube videos and we were also able to talk to Jared for a while. His last week of work was last week, and they are currently packing up and getting ready to move to Colorado. They will be leaving Sunday morning, and plan to arrive in Colorado Monday afternoon.
Thursday, August 20th: I woke up at 4:30. Frank went into his office to work. I skipped exercising to give my body time to heal. I felt pretty achy all over. I had an eye doctor appointment that morning; I wasn't sure exactly what he was planning to do that day but found out when I arrived that he was going to do a biopsy of my right eye. (I knew that was one of the possibilities; just didn't know for sure when it was happening.) The procedure was not too bad; it was rather uncomfortable and unpleasant, but only slightly painful. Having a numb eye is a strange sensation! Try to imagine your eye feeling the same way your mouth feels when the dentist shoots you with novacaine. My eye was slightly watery and irritated right afterwards, but I was able to drive and I decided to go straight to Walmart to buy groceries before going home. I'm glad I did that, because by the time I got home the numbness was wearing off and my eye was feeling more watery and starting to hurt. I just wanted to lie down and close my eye for a while, and since I had also woken up so early, I decided a nap would be a good idea. I had no trouble falling asleep and slept for about an hour, but when I woke up the whole right side of my head was hurting and my eye was red and sore. I took some Tylenol, and that helped with the headache and pain a bit. I was also still feeling quite achy from my fall--especially my left arm. My eye continued to be watery and sore / irritated for the rest of the day.
After I had lunch, Frank got home from work. He stopped on his way to pick up some antibiotic eye drops the eye doctor prescribed for me. I decided to listen to more Follow Him podcast because I could do that with my eyes closed, but after listening for a few minutes I started to feel really sleepy again so I turned it off and took another nap. I was very surprised when I woke up to discover that I had slept for a couple of hours! Frank had a PT appointment that afternoon, and he went to the appointment and came back and I slept through the whole thing. Right as I was waking up I got a charley horse in my left calf, so that added to the fun!
It was dinner time when I woke up, so I made dinner. After eating, I listened to more of the podcast and also watched an episode of Downton Abbey. Shortly before bedtime, I checked my email, and I had an email from the person who is supposed to do training for my mission, asking me to check my family search email because she had been trying to get in touch with me to set up a time to train me. I had completely forgotten that I had another email account that I needed to be checking! All the previous emails relating to my mission application had come to my regular email, so I just had it in my head that they would be contacting me that way to set up training, and I had been surprised that no one had contacted me yet. Silly me! 😳 I immediately sent an apologetic email to her. She had offered two times--Thursday afternoon and Friday afternoon, and of course it was too late for Thursday afternoon. I told her I could do Friday afternoon but mentioned I had just had a procedure on my eye that might interfere with my being able to do the whole 2 1/2 hours of training. When I checked my email this morning, she had replied and said the training involved a lot of visual input, and she was concerned about me looking at a screen for a long time after just having a procedure done on my eye. She suggested we wait until next week, so we set up a time for next Wednesday. I was concerned about looking at a screen for a long time, too, so I am grateful that she was willing to postpone until next week.
I was worried that I was going to have a hard time falling asleep last night, given my long afternoon nap, but I actually fell asleep fairly quickly and slept well.
Friday, August 21st: I wanted to go to the temple this morning, but since my eye was very sore last night and I needed to rest it often, I decided that driving that far would not be a good idea and I cancelled my appointment. I was sad to miss a chance to go to the temple--again!--but I'm sure that was a wise decision. When I woke up this morning, I didn't feel very well--again, the whole right side of my head hurt and my eye was still very red and sore. After eating breakfast and taking some Tylenol, I felt quite a bit better. My arms are still recovering from my fall; they feel like I've been working out! My left hand looks pretty bruised:
I haven't done much today--just updated the finances and wrote this blog post. I also called a friend who just moved and is feeling a little lonely in her new place, and contacted some of the women I minister to. My eye seems to be improving a bit--not quite as red--but it's still sore and a bit goopy, and my head hurts if I don't take Tylenol. I guess it's a good idea not to do too much, but I prefer to be busy & productive. I'm grateful that I haven't had a lot that absolutely needed to be done these past few days. The doctor didn't give me any idea what to expect after this procedure and he didn't give me any self care instructions either. Yesterday I did some googling and the recovery instructions for an eye biopsy that I found said that I shouldn't wear contact lenses or eye make up or do strenuous exercise for a while and that it can take up to two weeks to fully recover. Not sure why the doctor didn't tell me any of that, but thankfully most of that is common sense (I have no desire to put a contact lens in my eye right now!) and since I also hurt myself when I fell, I haven't been exercising.
Seth just mowed the lawn and now he and Frank are planning to go see Spider Man. I am definitely not up to going to a movie, so I am going to make myself something to eat and enjoy a quiet evening. Until next week, then!























































































































































































































































































































































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