Well! I'd say this week was rather eventful. It's hard to know where to start. Although I'll say right away that I'm going to leave out a lot of the details of what we did each day or I'll be here all night trying to record it all. So let's start with Saturday, I guess.
The big event of Saturday was the baptism of a family into our ward, and Frank was the one who did the baptisms. Pretty cool, right? Another family in our ward invited this family to church, and they have been coming for a couple of months. I was surprised when the Elders told us they had asked for Frank to baptize them--what I didn't know was that Frank and the dad in the family have been talking a lot at church every week. But anyway, Frank was happy to do it. The baptism was really nice. The water was really cold, though, because the ward mission leader accidentally turned the cold water up instead of off when he turned the water off. Oops!
The rest of the day on Saturday Frank was working on a client's crashed server. It turned out to be a big mess and he was up over half the night and Griffin (his former employer) even got involved which was interesting since his former boss is still harboring a lot of angry feelings about the clients who left Griffin when they laid Frank off (but whatever, that's his problem). Then at around 2:00 am when Frank was packing everything up to come back home, a computer slid off a chair and fell right on his foot! He thought maybe he'd broken it.
So Sunday, which is always crazy anyway, got a little crazier. I went to my early morning ward council meeting as usual. I knew I had to get Frank in to see the doctor, which opened at noon. So I came home & got food in the crock pot for dinner, made a number of phone calls to make sure everything was covered for RS since I wasn't sure I'd be there for our meetings, and then Jared & I went to another ward's sacrament meeting so we could take the sacrament. (Jared went with me because he found out on Saturday that even though he'd told them he couldn't help with the Sunday performance of his play, they had to have him there.) After we did that, Jared got a ride to his play, Tanner went to our sacrament meeting, and I took Frank to the doctor. Seth came with us because he can be a handful at church and I had pity on Tanner. Plus, he had developed a rather nasty cough in the night and sounded congested. The doctor, not surprisingly, sent Frank to get x-rays. First they got him some crutches, though. And two prescriptions--one for inflamation and the other for pain. We had to go to the hospital to get the x-rays done. That took a while, of course. By the time we got done at the hospital and headed over to the pharmacy, it was probably around 3:30. Then the pharmacy wouldn't accept the prescription for pain medicine because it wasn't on "security paper"--apparently, a new law in Maryland. So I ended up going back to the doctor for a new prescription (on the other side of Frederick, of course) and then back to the pharmacy, where they informed me that they close at 5:00 so be sure to be back before then to pick it up. I hadn't had much sleep and I had been feeling all day like I was coming down with a nasty cold of some kind, so while waiting in line at the pharmacy, I remember wondering what would happen if I just fell asleep right there in the car! (It was a drive through pharmacy). I was thinking maybe I could catch a 30 minute nap before the Elders showed up for dinner at 5:00. (Did I mention that I had signed up to feed the Elders? Or that I had also committed to take dinner to another family in the ward?) The pharmacy's early closing hour dashed that hope. I had time to run home, add the last few ingredients to the crock pot, set the table, and then I had to be back before the pharmacy closed. It all worked out, and somehow I didn't collapse. The Elders took the food to the other family when we were done eating, which helped me out a lot. Then Jared and I (he was home by then) were off to the stake choir practice. By then my nose was running, my throat hurt, and I was congested, and normally I would have skipped the practice but it was our last one so I didn't want to miss it. It was a long day! For Frank too, since he was in pain the whole time. He didn't break his foot, though. It was just very bruised and sore and he tried to keep it up and keep ice on it as much as possible.
Seth sounded worse and felt feverish on Monday, so I kept him home from school. Frank actually went to work, because he had some things he really needed to be there for. He did not have to report for jury duty that day. Tanner had the Elders over because they had permission to watch The Saratov Approach, and we can get it on Netflix. (It was their Pday) I wasn't feeling well either but I had made an appointment to visit a sister in the ward and I really wanted to see her so I went anyway. She made lunch for us, and it was really good. I tried to rest a bit after I got home. All week we were trying to get things ready for Jared's Eagle project, though. And of course we were preparing for Scott to come home too!
I kept Seth home from school through Wednesday. On Tuesday Jared went to the oral surgeon and he decided that he doesn't need to do any more work on the molar exposures so he's good to go. I tried to rest on Tuesday too. I helped Frank go through a couple of boxes of things in Scott's room...he'd planned to do that over the weekend but the server crash got in the way of those plans, and then the hurt foot too. He didn't have to report for jury duty Tuesday either, and we were really relieved when he called Tuesday evening and found out he didn't have to report on Wednesday. (Thank you for the prayers!) I admit I was kind of an emotional wreck on Tuesday, though. I wasn't able to have things as ready for Scott's homecoming as I would have liked.
I thought Wednesday was going to drag, since Scott's plane didn't land until nearly 4:00, but it actually went by pretty fast. I cleaned the oven and made a cake (a recipe I got from one of the families he lived with...they told me he loved this cake!) and got grocery shopping done. We had to quickly make a few signs right before we left for the airport! A sister in my ward called me while I was loading groceries in the car to let me know there was a picture of Scott on FB at the SLC airport. So I had to go on there to see the picture, of course. A man who lives in Bethesda was flying home on the same flight with Scott, and struck up a conversation with Scott at the airport. He discovered that Scott is from the same stake as one of his sons, and that a friend of his is in our ward so he took the picture of Scott and sent it to our friend in our ward, and he shared it with us. Meanwhile, we made our way to the airport:
While we were waiting at the baggage claim for Scott to show up, this man who had talked with Scott came along and asked "Are you the Cleveland?" When we said we were, he introduced himself and told us Scott would be coming soon. He offered to take some pictures for us. He also said "I have to warn you, he's kind of a crying mess!" This man, whose name is Kerry Harding, did take some nice pictures and put them up on facebook for us with some very nice comments about Scott. I tried to download some of his photos, but they are tiny and difficult to see. But Jared and Tanner also took pictures and we got some great ones:
Here he comes!
Getting closer:
He's wondering why Frank is on crutches:
Almost here:
And at this moment, Seth got in between Scott and I. But what did Scott do? He sidestepped Seth completely and came right to me with wide open arms! What a great son!:
We'd both been waiting for this hug for a long time, and neither of us let go for quite a while. And I admit I cried a little bit. But I wasn't the only one!:
Frank and Seth got a bit impatient for their turns (understandably) and joined in:
Frank finally gets his turn (and the expressions on Scott's face are priceless):
And now Jared's turn:
And I have no idea why no one got a picture of Tanner and Scott hugging! Kerry Harding didn't have any either! I am sad about that. But I was there, and they did hug each other.
We finally stopped hugging and posed for a picture all together:
And by this time, about 90% of the people at the baggage claim were staring at us. But most of them were smiling indulgently.
I have to admit when I saw the photos later, I was surprised at how well they captured the joy and excitement we were all feeling. It was truly a sacred experience. I wasn't really prepared for how it would feel. I feel like I got a small taste of how it must feel for Heavenly Father when each one of us returns to Him after this earth life.
On the way home, I snapped a few pictues of Scott in the middle seat with Seth. I just kept looking back there. Couldn't look at him enough!
We had a sign on the door at home, too:
It's hard to read the sign. You know how people often put up signs when they have new baby? Well, we patterned our sign after those signs. It says: It's an RM! Name: Scott Date: March 25, 2015 Length: Hopefully still shorter than Tanner Weight: Approx. 10-20 pounds heavier than when he left From: Salt Lake City South Mission To: Home! Welcome Home!
Here he is with the cake I made him:
I put dinner in the crock pot that morning so it would be ready when we got home. After dinner Jared had to go to YM and the rest of us went with Scott to see the stake president so he could be released. We had a nice meeting with him and Scott cried when he took his nametags off, but it was sweet too.
So what is it like having him home? It is fabulous!!! I can't even put into words how great it is to have him home. There is this sweet, joyful, holy feeling in our house He's still himself and yet he's changed so much...all in good ways. Maybe because he didn't write long letters, I just wasn't sure what his mission was like. But I can tell already that he put his whole heart and soul into it, and that he loved it more than anything. I just have a very full heart...so grateful he went; so grateful he had such a great experience; so grateful that we get to have him home with us for a little while. I wish I could say more about how I feel, but there just aren't words.
My schedule has kind of gone on the rocks since Scott got home. On Thursday I ended up taking he and Tanner shopping, because Scott needed some clothes. (A belated Christmas present.) And on Friday he talked me into going to the temple, even though I really didn't have time to do that. But of course I was really glad to go to the temple, and it was wonderful to have the chance to have nice long talks with Scott on the way down and back...we swapped mission stories, of course! Jared, Seth and I had dental check ups on Thursday also. And of course we still had Eagle project planning to do every day. On both Thursday night and last night, I was utterly exhausted by the time I fell into bed.
In spite of the incredible pace I've been going at, I am getting better. Not nearly so congested and only coughing a little bit. Thank goodness!
Last night (yep, I didn't finish this post last night) all three of the older boys went to help with a camp out. They helped transport equipment to the camp site, and then they hung out with the scout troop all evening but they didn't spend the night. I wanted them to come home for the night because we were all up early this morning for Jared's Eagle project. He has three work days planned; this was the first one. This time we focused on getting all the pictures drawn for the signs, and we got most of them done.
I will post pictures next week because if I try to do it now, I won't get this posted until tomorrow!