When I looked at the date yesterday, I realized that we are only 4 months away from Christmas...how can that be?? This week has felt long, but perhaps that is because it was our first full week of school, and Seth started Seminary this week too. We're not used to getting up so early yet!
I mentioned last week that I was going to a wedding reception. Frank met me there on his way home from work. It was not a "drop in" type of reception--they actually had a full sit down dinner. We ended up at a table with some friends from both our ward and our stake, and it was fun to visit. After dinner they had dancing. They did one thing I thought was fun...they asked all married couples to come to the dance floor. After a minute or so of dancing, they said "anyone who's been married less than 5 hours, sit down". That was the couple who had just got married, of course. Then they asked anyone who had been married less than a year to sit down and then proceeded from there, adding on a couple of years every time. Finally there was only one couple left, who had been married 51 years. They asked that couple to share some words of advice with the newly married couple. Here's a picture my friend Michelle (she's the YW president that I'm serving with) took at the wedding (not the reception). We were sitting together; she has to keep out of the sun so she had brought an umbrella:
Saturday was pretty busy. I got my hair cut in the morning. When I got home, we went to the store to buy a chromebook for Seth. The laptop he's been using is not working great and it's also pretty heavy for him to carry back and forth to school. The school system will rent him a chromebook, but it costs $60 / year to do that. Since Seth has 3 more years of school, that means we'll pay $180 in rental fees before we're done and since some chromebooks don't cost much more than that, we decided to buy him his own...then he can keep it! We also got a laptop for me because the laptop I've been using is starting to show signs of age. Believe it or not, the laptop we bought is the first brand new laptop I've ever had! All of the other laptops I've used over the years are ones that Frank picked up here and there from other people. We did buy a laptop at the store for me once, but even that one was not brand new because it had been used as a display (and therefore was less expensive). I'm still using my old laptop to write this post, though, because we haven't had a chance to fully set up the new one yet.
That evening there was a post-FSY activity and dance for the youth at our stake center. We found out on Friday morning that each ward needed to provide a chaperone for the dance portion. Most of our youth leaders and parents were unavailable, so Frank and I ended up volunteering to go. (We didn't both have to go but I thought it would be more fun if we went together). We were assigned to sit on a couch at the end of one of the hallways to keep youth from wandering into the chapel or outside. It wasn't a bad gig...a lot of the other chaperones had to circlulate through the halls or walk around outside in the parking lot. We got to sit on a comfortable couch, inside where it was cooler. Before the dance, which was for multiple stakes, our stake had a dinner for the youth in our stake. Seth went to that and then stayed for the dance, although he didn't dance at all. They had a room with board / card games and another room with games like corn hole and giant jenga. He spent the night in those rooms with friends. I think it's nice that they have other options besides dancing (I would have enjoyed that a lot more than dancing when I was a teenager) but I hope someday he'll be interested in doing some dancing too.
Sunday was even busier than Saturday. Before church, I had a song practice because I'll be singing with a small group in sacrament meeting in a few weeks. The song is called "Shards of Glass" which is a reference to the china & glassware that early church members smashed and added to the plaster of the Kirtland Temple so that the outside walls would be shiny. The message of the song is that the Lord can take our meager, imperfect efforts and turn them into great things. It's a beautiful song and I am enjoying learning it. After that I had regular church meetings, of course. After church I just had time to come home and make lunch, eat, and do some advance preparations for dinner before leaving again to go to ward council. (Frank went too of course.) The YW president left Saturday morning to drive her two oldest daughters out to Utah since they are both attending BYU this semester, so I went to the meeting in her place. That meeting went longer than usual and by the time we got home it was time to put dinner in the oven. We had a little bit of down time while dinner cooked, but not a lot. The Elders came over for dinner and we enjoyed having them here. We just found out that morning that both of them were being transferred in a few days and sister missionaries were going to take their place. We'll miss the Elders, but I am excited to have Sisters here again!
We had dinner a little early because at 6:00 we all had a meeting at the stake center...it was for all the Seminary students and their parents, just to go over information for this new year of Seminary. We also found out that day that our Seminary class was going to be bigger. Up until now, the kids in our ward have had their own class (along with a few kids from the Spanish ward who live in our ward boundaries). But this year they decided to have all the kids who go to TJ High School (Seth's high school) attend the same Seminary class as the kids in our ward. (Most of the kids in our ward go to Walkersville High School; Seth is one of only a few in our ward who go to TJ.) There are several kids in the Frederick Ward who attend TJ High School, so they are joining our Seminary class this year. Seth is actually the only youth in our ward attending TJ who attends Seminary regularly, so it's nice that he's not the only one going to his school from Seminary now. It's also nice that he is getting to know some of the other LDS kids at his school. We could have joined a carpool with the Frederick Ward kids, but since Seth needs to take his medicine every day in between Seminary and school and I know he will forget to take it if I just send it to Seminary with him, I will still be picking him up from Seminary every day to take him to school. We may occasionally take some of the other TJ kids with us, though.
After the Seminary meeting, Frank and Seth went home but I stayed because there was a post-camp fireside for all the YW and YW leaders in the stake. They showed a slide show with pictures from camp and had a few leaders speak briefly, then had time for girls to share testimonies. It was really nice so I'm glad I went even though I was pretty tired by then. It was definitely a long day!! I went home and went to bed since we had to be up at 5:00 am the next morning.
The rest of the week hasn't been as busy as the weekend was, but we've still had a few events. Since Frank has been leaving for work around 6:00 am every morning and Seminary starts at 6:10, he is now taking Seth to Seminary every morning before going to work. That is nice for me, since last year I usually took him to Seminary and then went back to pick him up and take him to school. It makes my morning routine easier to only make one trip! On Monday I went to lunch with my friend Sherrie. She was the 2nd counselor in the YW presidency until recently...she got released because she is going to be a temple worker and is assigned to work at the temple the same night as our activity night. I've missed her now that I don't see her and talk to her as frequently so we decided to go to lunch. It was nice to get caught up with her.
We had a combined YW activity on Tuesday evening...the younger class was in charge and they decided that they want to paint their nails while chatting about the first week of school. It was a fun and relaxing activity. Meanwhile, the boys were playing volleyball and eating bagels.
On Wednesday we didn't have to go anywhere in the evening but we did get some unexpected visitors...the new sister missionaries stopped by to meet us. It was fun to get to know them a little bit. One of them has been out 15 months and the other one is brand new from the MTC. On Wednesday we also did some online searching and booked a place to stay in Brevard for Thanksgiving. Scott is coming with us and Jared & Jessie will likely come over too. Tanner & Darlee would like to come but they don't know Darlee's school schedule yet so we'll have to wait and see if that will work out.
Last night I had book chat. We had a lively discussion about Patriots while enjoying fondue. Yum!! Now we are going to read a book called Ribbons of Scarlet, which is about several women during the French Revolution.
Seth has had a friend from school / church come over after school three days this week. He is in another ward but goes to Seth's high school. His dad asked me if we'd be willing to let him come to our house for about an hour after school each day so that his dad doesn't have to make two trips to Frederick every day to pick up both this boy and his two younter sisters from their schools, which dismiss about an hour apart. I told him we'd try it...my only concern was that Seth needs to get his homework done, and having his friend here could be a distraction. This boy is a really nice boy and he and Seth get along well so other than that, I'm happy to have him come here. So far it has worked out fine although Seth hasn't had any homework yet so we'll see how it goes as we get farther into the school year. We decided to change our rules for screen time this school year. Last year Seth got 2 hours of screen time on school nights if he got his homework done. This year we decided not to have any screen time on school nights. (He gets plently of screen time on Fridays and Saturdays.) We made this decision because we feel like last year Seth would rush through his homework and not give it his best effort because he just wanted to finish so he could get his screen time. When I explained this to Seth, I was surprised that he agreed with me! I'm sure we'll hear complaints about it as the year goes by, but I think it's going to be a lot better this way.
This week I got to talk on the phone to Mom, Amy, Tanner, and Scott so that was nice. I've been listening to audio books a lot and just finished listening to the last book in a 6 book series. I started listening to a new book called Divine Signatures which is really uplifting; I like it a lot.
The weather has changed and we are back to typical miserable hot and humid August weather. I don't have to go outside much, though, so it's not too bad. The sky was really beautiful this morning though, so I will finish up with a few pictures I took at the church (while waiting for Seth to get out of Seminary) and at home:








































































