Friday, May 4, 2012

Weekly Review May 4 '12

Greetings!

I don't think there is a whole lot to write about this week.  We certainly kept busy, but not doing anything that I would consider exciting or terribly interesting to read about.  But since our last bit of excitement was a mild head concussion, I am not going to complain about a lack of excitement now.  Here's a (hopefully) brief rundown of what we did, though.

Jared was still recuperating from being sick on Saturday.  Seth and I stayed home with him and got chores done around the house.  Everyone else was gone all day.  Frank was gone from 8:30 in the morning until 10:30 that night pulling cables at the stake center.  Not a lot of fun for him, but it has to be done so that broadcasts can be sent from there to other buildings in our stake.  He still has some work to finish up there, but the bulk of it is done.  Scott and Tanner did lawn aeration in the morning for a scout troop fundraiser (Jared would have gone too if he had been well enough), then helped Frank at the stake center for a few hours, then went to work at their play at the high school.  It was the last performance and since this was the last play of the school year, it was Scott's last time working a play in high school.  Traditionally, they have what they call "senior night" at the last performance of the the year--that's where the director gets with the cast afterwards and talks for a few minutes about each of the seniors involved in the play and they all get flowers and some gifts and everybody cries a lot.  They arrived home late, sniffing and with red eyes!  Tanner's description of the event was "an emotional train wreck"!  (Ah, if they only knew that after high school ends, life just gets better!  Not that I am making light of their feelings, because it's true that change is hard and it's always sad to leave good friends.) 

Frank was super sore all over on Sunday from all the manual labor he did the day before.  Scott and Tanner were pretty tired, too.  We had a combined RS / Priesthood / YM / YW meeting since it was a 5th Sunday; they talked about our stake's public relations plan.  Frank and the older three boys went to a stake priesthood meeting that evening.

On Monday morning I went on a fruitless search for a costume for Seth.  He's portraying William McKinley in his class play in a couple of weeks.  In all the pictures I've found of him, he's wearing a dark suit--coat, vest, pants, and bow tie.  He doesn't own a suit and I don't really want to buy a new one so I tried finding one used, but didn't have any luck.  I did acquire a new purse, though--my old one was wearing out.  The old purse was also smaller than I really needed so I got one that is a little bit bigger and I am very happy with it so far. 

I started feeling like I might be coming down with Jared's illness on Saturday, but I fought it off and tried to ignore it until Tuesday evening.  By then (after putting in a full day of house cleaning and errands) I was aching all over and felt feverish, besides congested and coughing.  So I went to bed early and Wednesday I laid low.  Frank was great--he took the older boys to Seminary and stayed home long enough to take the younger boys to school.  He made dinner after he came home from work, too.  I asked the new Mia Maid advisor and one of the girls' moms to help with the Mia Maid class activity that evening so that I could stay home.  Thankfully, having that one day of rest seemed to really help--I felt a lot better on Thursday and was able to do everything I needed to do that day, including a few things that didn't get done on Wednesday.  I picked up a bunch of new t-shirts and shorts for Seth, since he is growing out of all his clothes.  I also got several basic t-shirts for myself--I'm noticing that most of mine are wearing out and have grease stains on them (I really need to remember to start wearing an apron when I cook!)

Unfortunately, Frank came down with my illness yesterday.  He stayed home from work and was really quite miserable all day but he had a meeting he had to be at today (more on that later) so he went in.  Thankfully, he is already feeling a lot better today so it wasn't as hard for him to go to work as I thought it was going to be.  Technically, he doesn't have any sick days earned yet so he will be working some extra hours next week to make up for yesterday.

Today I took Snickers to the vet for an immunization that was due and got the budget caught up.  The older boys are going to go see the movie Avengers tonight.  Frank wants to see it too but he needs to get some rest so he's going to go another time.

So about the meeting Frank had today--it was at Marriott headquarters and everyone who works in his building had to be there.  They announced that they are starting the process of "assessing" and "reorganizing" and that there will probably be some lay offs before they are through--but not until 1st quarter 2013.  They have also initiatied a hiring freeze.  We are extremely grateful that Frank made it through the official hiring process before now; otherwise, he would be stuck as a contractor indefinitely and he would be much more vulnerable to a layoff, I think.  There's not much point in worrying too much about the layoff situation, at least until next year.  We'll just have to see what happens.  Overall, Frank thinks his department is fairly safe because no one else does the things that they do, but there's never any way of telling about these things of course.  So not great news, but we're just going to try to forget about it for now.

Now that Scott is done with his play, he's had more time on his hands so I've encouraged him to start some serious job hunting and he's made a little progress in that area.  He also got his graduation announcements sent out and we are trying to make a final decision about his housing for next year.  I do not remember getting  into / getting ready for college myself being as stressful as it has been getting Scott through the process. :)

That's it for this week.  Since I didn't take any pictures, I thought I'd take a stroll down "memory lane" and add a few from the past.  So what were we doing in May 6 years ago?  Well, we were visiting our old stomping grounds in western New York. 

Here is our family at the visitor's center for the Smith family log home:          




This visitor's center was new to us--we moved away shortly after the log home was built, but the visitor's center hadn't been built yet.  Notice that none of the boys are taller than me--even Scott is still a little bit shorter! (May 2006)

The boys walking down the path from the log home to the frame home.  The frame home was under renovation when we left and it looked totally different by the time we came back for this visit!  Actually, this path was new too.  It used to be the main road (traffic) through the area but they re-routed the road to go behind the frame home.


Scott in the Sacred Grove


Tanner in the Sacred Grove


Jared



Flowers on the Palmyra Temple grounds.  The temple wasn't there when we lived there, either!  It was so awsome to see a temple there.  It is so beautiful!


The Peter Whitmer home looked exactly the same as we remembered.  The only thing that had changed was us.  The last picture we had taken in front of this building, the boys were about knee high and Jared was inside me!

This concludes our trip to the past. :)

Friday, April 27, 2012

Weekly Review April 27 '12

When I left off last week, Jared and I were leaving for the roadshow performance.  Both performances went well.  (We had one Friday night and one Saturday night).  I wish I had some pictures, but I forgot my camera, of course!  A lot of people in the ward took pictures, though, and I am hoping to get some of them and maybe I can post some next week.  On the first night of performances we got to see all the other wards do their shows except for the ward immediately before our performance.  I was impressed--they were all creative, and even more importantly, all the performers seemed to be having a great time.  The second night they were judging the performances and we had to stay in our assigned room all evening.  Everyone was having fun, though.  After our second performance everyone was so wired!  But the cool thing was that our director had brought the Muppet Movie for everyone to watch while waiting and everyone sat there and sang the songs together and I could really tell that this event was a huge bonding experience for all the youth in our ward.  We also had a number of non-member friends who participated and they were in on that bonding experience as well.

At the end of the evening, they had the awards ceremony.  Each ward got an award for something outstanding about their show--our ward got outstanding choreography, which didn't surprise me at all--we had three dance numbers and our choreographer was very talented.  The kids who danced were talented too--I was so impressed with how well they learned the dances.  They really looked fantastic!  They also gave 1st, 2nd and 3rd places for the best shows overall, and our ward got 2nd place.  We were all pretty pleased about that.  Another cool thing about this whole event is that they got members of the community who are involved in theater to be the judges.  None of them were members of our church but they all made comments afterwards about what a great feeling there was at this event, how impressed they were with our youth, how glad they were that they got to be a part of it, and a few of them even said they felt like God had guided the people in charge of the roadshows to choose them as a judge.  So overall it was a very positive experience that involved adults, youth, and children in all the wards as well as many members of our community, which is great!

Tanner and Scott continued to be very busy with their play at the high school with a performance on Friday night and two performances on Saturday.  They slept late on Saturday and really only had a few hours to work on homework before they had to be back at the school.  Tanner forgot to take his medicine and since Frank and I had been planning to take a walk sometime that day anyway, we walked over to the high school and back to take him his medicine.  We took Snickers with us also.  It was quite warm that day and we had to stop several times so Snickers could rest in the shade!  Other than that, we didn't get a lot done over the weekend besides the basics.  

Sunday was cold again, and overall this week has been mostly cold / cool, with quite a bit of rain.  After church I went to choir and Jared had BYC. 

Monday was our 20th wedding anniversary.  It is just really hard for me to believe that 20 years have really gone by!  We're hoping at some point to have a weekend getaway, but the next several weeks are pretty booked up with events for the kids so we haven't done much to celebrate yet.  We did go out for dinner that night, though (before family night), got each other cards, and when I was just leaving to go pick up Seth from school, I opened the door and came face to face with a lady carrying this up my front walk:    


I was actually quite suprised although I suppose I shouldn't have been! 

I had a YW presidency Monday morning.  We did it over the phone since the YW president wasn't feeling too well.  Tuesday morning the a guy from the company who installed our countertops came over and put a seal around the top of the sink--we've had some trouble with it leaking if we splash water near the top of the sink.  The guy who came was pretty sure that the people who installed the countertop forgot to put a seal in at all, but it's fixed now.  I had book club Tuesday afternoon.  We had Chinese food since we read a book that took place in China.  (Snow Flower and the Secret Fan).  I also read another book I was given at Christmas time called Chinese Cinderella.  Both of the books were good, but I am glad that I was not born in China.  Girls are considered worthless too much of the time!

I had lots of errands to do on Wednesday and one of my visiting teachers came over to see me that afternoon.  I also did a lot of weeding and Scott moved the lawn so the yard looks a lot better although I still have some weeding to finish.  I am really trying to pull the weeds up by their roots so that they are less likely to come back.  It must be helping because I had a lot fewer weeds to pull this time around than last time.  That evening we had YM / YW--they had a "cast party" and showed a recording of our performance so we could all see what it looked like from the audience's point of view. 

Yesterday was cold and rainy and that kind of fit my mood--I had a few things weighing pretty heavily on my mind and I felt kind of down.  I kept busy, though--I went visiting teaching in the morning and met with the new Mia Maid advisor (our current one is moving so a new one was just called on Sunday) in the afternoon.  Jared woke up feeling sick and since his temperature was a little elevated, I let him stay home.  That was  a good choice--his temperature continued to go up that day and even with medication it got up to 101.5.  He also had a headache, sore throat and congestion.  I thought I might have to take him to the doctor today but his temperature was down this morning and has stayed down all day.  He still doesn't feel great but he is better than he was.

Today I've been busy getting the budget caught up, making refreshments for our marriage class tonight (it's our turn to bring them) and taking care of Jared.  And keeping up with Seth, of course!  Scott and Tanner are at their play now (we've seen more of them this week, though--they haven't had rehearsals like last week) and we are getting ready to leave for our class.  We're taking Seth with us since we don't want to leave him with just Jared when Jared is sick.  So I'd better go! 

To finish up, here is a picture of each boy that was taken this week:

 
 Scott--he's too tired to sit up for the picture!  The t-shirt explains what has been taking up all his time and making him so tired.

 Tanner--don't ask!  This is typical Tanner.


Jared lying on the couch, being sick.


Seth, taking after Tanner.

Friday, April 20, 2012

Weekly Review April 20 '12

I guess I forgot to take pictures this week; lack of sleep, no doubt!

Saturday was busy as usual.  I got my hair done first thing in the morning; that took a couple of hours because I had the color done too.  When I was paying for it, I heard a voice next to me say "Why can't I have hair like that?  I looked up to see a woman standing next to me.  "Like what?" I asked.  "Like yours!" she said.  I was surprised--I don't think I've ever had anyone envy my hair before. (Although it did look pretty good right then--the girl who did my hair did a good job.  I haven't been able to get it to look that good since, of course.)  Apparently, her hair is pretty thin and I definitely have an abundance of hair!  Which is not always a blessing, but when I think about it I would much rather have too much hair than not enough, and I am grateful.

In the afternoon Frank and I went to the temple.  It was very nice to be there and I'm glad we made it.  The rest of the day was busy with finishing up my lesson and other preparations for Sunday.  My lesson went well, I think.  After church was busy with a meeting for all the kids going to Youth Conference and their parents, followed by a class presidency meeting.  That evening there was an Easter concert at our stake center done by the Mormon Choir of Washington, DC.  Tanner and Jared came with me to that.  It was great!

The big event on Monday was Seth getting a mild concussion.  He was running into the living room from the kitchen and he had a blanket spread out on the floor for a "picnic".  When he got to the blanket, it slid out from under him and he fell flat on his back, hitting the back of his head really hard.  He was crying pretty lustily when I ran in to pick him up (Frank and I were making banana bread), but as soon as I picked him up he stopped crying, closed his eyes, and went limp.  He has done that a few times in the past (although not recently) so I was not extremely alarmed, but we did get worried when it took him a lot longer to come back around than usual and then when he did he sobbed and refused to speak to us for a half hour and then he fell asleep.  We decided to call the doctor, who told us that we should take him to the ER to get checked.  (Thank goodness our new insurance kicked in last week; we were without coverage for a couple of weeks.)  So we did take Seth in, and after a very long wait the doctor saw him and determined that he had a mild concussion.  By that time he had woken back up and was acting like himself again.   We got home very late (11:00 ish) but Tanner and Scott, who had play rehearsals, got home even later than us.

Seth and I went out to stay with the lady in our ward again on Tuesday (the one who had surgery recently) but no jumping on the trampoline for Seth this time!  He has to be very careful not to hit his head again for at least 2 weeks.  He's supposed to avoid things that are very "mentally stimulating" too (the example they gave us was video games). 

Wednesday and Thursday afternoons I had visits with girls in my YW class.  Each time I brought a member of the class presidency with me to visit one of the other girls.  It was fun; I enjoyed hanging out with girls for a change! 

This week has also been busy with roadshow prepartions.  I've been practicing the songs a lot since I'm helping with the singing.  (Which meant I was doomed to have the songs running through my head for days on end; they are very catchy.)  On Wednesday night we had our dress rehearsal and it was a chaotic mess, as expected, but the second time we went through the show we managed to go through without stopping with only a few glitches, so I think it is going to be fine.  Actually, I think it's going to be pretty awesome!  We have our first performance tonight; Jared and I have to leave in about a half hour.  After the practice, the guy in our ward who is in charge of the whole show found me to tell me what a fantastic job Jared is doing running the spotlight.

We have barely seen Scott and Tanner all week--they've stayed after pretty much every day and not been home until late.  They had their first performance of their play (Legally Blonde) last night, and apparently it went much better than Scott had anticipated, which is good!  They have another performance tonight (they are leaving now) and two more tomorrow.  Unfotunately, they didn't make it to Seminary very much this week; they were just too tired to get up after all their late nights.  One of the  professional lighting guys that has been helping with this play gave Tanner and Scott each a pair of work gloves because he is so impressed with how much work they've been doing and how dedicated they are to making the show turn out well.

This is short, but the rest of the week was just filled with the usual cleaning, shopping and chores  (without Tanner and Scott around to help, I've been doing a lot more) and Jared and I need to leave anyway. 

Until next week, then!

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

My Childhood Home & Neighborhood, Part 3--Houston, Texas

Warning:  I remember this house a lot better than the two previous houses.  Forgive me for all the picky details; I am just a detail loving person!  Besides, I want to remember it as well as I do now, and if I don't write it all down I'll forget when I get old and senile.  So feel free to skim if you get bored!

We moved to my third childhood home in the fall of 1973 when I was 5 years old.  My memories at this age are not extremely clear, but I do remember a few things about this move.  For one thing, it was my first time riding on an airplane.  The climate in Houston is quite different from the other two places I'd lived up to that point and my first impression of Houston was that it was very green and that there were lots of trees.  Oh, and it rained.  A lot!

I remember being quite anxious to see our new house.  We drove by it once (possibly the day we arrived in Texas; I'm not sure) but it was pouring rain so we didn't get out of the car.  Then we went by again sometime in the next few days.  We couldn't go inside, but I remember walking around the back and looking in the kitchen (breakfast area) windows to try to see as much as we could.  I don't remember how long we stayed in the hotel before we actually moved into the house, but it probably was only a few days.  The outside of the house (as you can see in the picture below) was brown brick.
  

Pew Family Children, December 1973
In front of our house at 318 Bayou View Dr., Seabrook, TX 77586
Back Row: Curtis, Erick & Hans
Front Row: Ben, Tim, Shellie, Amy & Annette

This picture was taken just a few months after we moved to Houston.  I actually remember the photo shoot because there was a cat wandering around our yard and Ben (almost 2 year old) was so fascinated by the cat that all he wanted to do was follow it around.  It took forever to get a decent shot because he kept walking away right when my dad took the picture.  (You can see he's already on his way out in the picture above!)

Anyway, in this picture we are standing in front of the part of the house where the master bedroom was located.  It had a cathedral ceiling and there were windows just under the peak of the roofline.  In the picture below, we were standing in front of the part of the house where the living room was located.  The living room had three sets of tall skinny windows in front; you can see some of them in the picture.    


Pew Family Fall 1976
(This picture was probably taken shortly before Curtis left on his mission.)
Back Row:  Hans, Curtis, Erick
Middle Row: Shellie, Mom, Dad
Front Row: Tim, Ben, Annette, Amy

The front door (and foyer) was located in between the living room and the master bedroom.  There was a curved path leading from the driveway to the front door.  Actually, I should say "doors" since there was a double door, but only one of them opened (the other was just for looks!)  There was a small square foyer just inside the front door with entrances to the living room (to the left), family room (straight ahead) and hallway that led to the master bedroom (right).  There were folding doors for each of these entrances, but we left them open almost all the time.  I remember they were there, though, because my dad shut himself in the foyer once with all the doors closed so he could try out my new hula hoop (received for my 8th birthday) without anyone watching (and ridiculing) him.  Plus, a few times my older siblings had gatherings with friends that I was not allowed to attend so the doors were shut those times too.  (And I didn't like it!)  Those doors had slats and if you stood right up against them you could just barely see through them but not well enough to get a good view.  Not very helpful for little kids trying to spy on their older brothers. :(
 
Here's a picture that was taken in the living room:
 
 
Christmas 1976 (I think)
Annette, Shellie, Tim, Ben and Amy enjoying presents (oh, and Pierre too!)
One set of narrow double windows is visible in the wall on the left of the picture.

The family room had a built in bookcase on the right wall, a pass through from the kitchen on the left wall, and a sliding glass door which led out to the back porch on the back wall.  There were also lots of windows on the back wall so there was a great view of the back yard.

 
Ben in the family room on one of his birthdays (probably 1976 or 1977)
Windows are behind him (covered with curtains) and the edge of the built in bookcases can just be seen on the far right of the picture, next to the cabinet television.  (Isn't that a great television, by the way?!)  The stairs were right behind the television.

The kitchen was to the left of the family room.  When you walked into the kitchen from the family room, you actually walked into a breakfast nook area (that extended to the right) with lots more windows with back yard views.  The kitchen part was to your left.  The kitchen had carpet--yellow carpet.  I'm sure my mom hated it!  If you kept walking straight ahead through the breakfast area, there was a small short hallway with a door to the garage at the end.  On the left was a small bathroom and on the right was the laundry room.  If you turned left into the kitchen after walking into the breakfast area and kept going straight ahead through the kitchen, you would come to a door (I think it was a pocket door) that led to the living room.

The hallway that led off the right side of the foyer was L shaped.  There was a closet on the right and after that was the door to the master bedroom.  Straight ahead (at the end of the short part of the "L") was a door to a bathroom.  This bathroom was sort of a "jack and jill" bath, because another door on the right wall of the bathroom connected to the master bedroom.  (The youngest members of our family remember getting in big trouble once for going through the bathroom to get into the master bedroom when the bedroom door was locked...shortly before Christmas.  Hmmm....!  I still maintain my innocence--I was so dense that it never even crossed my mind that I shouldn't be doing that!)  There was a small dressing area between the master bath and the main master bedroom area that had a big mirror, a counter and (I think) a sink where my mom would have us sit when she combed our hair and put it in ponytails (or braids) in the mornings.  There was a wall with closets that ran along one side of this area, which separated it from the rest of the master bedroom.  The wall didn't go all the way up to the cathedral ceiling, though.   

Back to the hallway, if you turned the corner of the "L" and headed down the hallway (after the bathroom) there was another small room on the right that we used for food storage.  The hallway ended in a room that I think was supposed to be a recreation room.  It had a linoleum floor and there was a sliding glass door leading out to the porch on the left wall.  This room was also open on the left side to the bottom of the stairs and to the family room.  (One step led up to a small landing.  On the other side of the landing another step led down into the family room.  If you turned left from the landing (instead of going straight forward and down into the family room) you would go up the stairs to the second floor.)  This room was where Curtis and Hans slept, but my mom had a desk in there and I remember playing in there too sometimes--we had a few toys in there like Tim's air hockey table.
 
  Ben, Tim, and Amy (1977)

That was the downstairs level of the house.  Upstairs, there were four bedrooms and a bathroom.  The stairs intersected a long hallway that ran from one end of the house to the other.  The bathroom was at one end of the hallway (to the left of the stairwell) and the room that Amy & I shared was at the other end of the hallway.  There were three other bedrooms.  One bedroom was to the left of the stairwell (tucked in between the bathroom and the stairwell)--that one was Erick's.  (At least that's how I remember it.  Maybe that room was Curtis's at first and Erick moved in after Curtis went to college.)  The other two bedrooms were to the right of the stairwell.  The first one was shared by Tim & Ben and the next one was Shellie's room.  All of the bedrooms (including mine) extended over the back side of the house, with windows looking out on the backyard.  That meant that all of the bedroom doorways were on one side of the hallway.  On the opposite side of the hallway there were one or two doors, but they led into attic space and they were kept locked most of the time.  There were no windows in the attic areas, so the house looked like a one story house from the front. 

The room that Amy and I shared was quite large.  We had a large closet across the front end of our room (to the left of the door) but most of the room was to the right of the door.  The wall opposite from the closet was the wall with the window.  The window was high enough that I had to stand on something to really look out.  The windows in the bedrooms were cut into the back slope of the roof so each one had a small flat area right outside the windowsill.  We were absolutely not allowed to climb out the window onto this flat area.  (I know Hans disobeyed this rule at least once--I'll have to tell that story later!)  I loved that window, though--we had a great view of the many trees in the backyard and I loved watching the birds in the trees.  It was sort of like living in a tree house.  We moved the furniture around once or twice while we lived there.  At one point, we were sleeping in a double bed that was against the back wall (opposite from the door) and at another point we had twin beds located on the window wall, one on each side of the window.  The room was big enough that we also had a small table with four chairs, a toy box, an easle, and plenty of room on the floor to spread out our toys.  I'm pretty sure the carpet was a soft green color (not my favorite).  Sometime during the time that we lived there, my mom made my sister and I matching bedspreads--the fabric was a pattern that looked like patchwork blocks with rickrack in between.  The different "squares" were solid pink and green, as well as polka dot, striped and floral prints in pink, green, and yellow.  She covered the top of the table and two bedside lamps with the same fabrics, and made a fabric covered frame to go around the window.

I think the layout of this house was pretty nice--great for entertaining downstairs and kind of a "kid haven" upstairs.  Tim, Ben, Amy and I used to pull toys out of our rooms and all play together in that long hallway.  It was very fun, but not so fun later when I was making the trek to the bathroom in the middle of the night down that long, dark, cluttered hallway.  Then it became a deadly obstacle course!  I remember Shellie complaining bitterly that we did not clean up after ourselves. 

As I mentioned before, we had a lot of trees in our backyard, and when I say a lot, I really do mean it!  I think we counted them once and there were close to 100.  Being in the back yard felt like being in the woods.  The left side of the yard had fewer trees and there was grass growing there, but most of the yard was dirt (like a forest floor).  There was a clearing in the middle of the yard large enough for our swing set and (later) a jungle gym.  A large tree in the back left corner of the yard had a round orange tree swing hanging in it--the kind with a rope in the middle of the circular seat.  One time I was out there by myself swinging on that swing and I somehow managed to get the skirt of my dress twisted up in the rope.  I was stuck and couldn't get loose; my mom finally came looking for me and rescued me.  There were two other trees near the back of the yard (behind the swingset clearing) that had a metal bar between them.  It was too high up for me to reach, though.  We had so much fun in that backyard (at least until fall when we had to help rake and bag all those leaves--that was torture).

We had trees in the front yard too, but not as many.  It seems like all those trees had things that fell off of them--little spikey balls or little hard shell-like pods.  We were forever stepping on things that hurt our feet, at least at certain times of the year.

There were only two things I remember not liking about this house.  The first is that my parents' bedroom was so far away from mine.  I'm sure they enjoyed the privacy, but I was a wimpy kid who was pretty much scared of everything and I had a lot of bad dreams.  So if I woke up in the middle of the night terrified from a bad dream and in need of parental comfort, I had to make a long frightening trip down the long hallway, down the stairs, past a lot of creepy windows in the family room, into the foyer right by the front door (another scary spot) and down the hall to (finally!) my parents' room.  I'm not sure why I didn't just stay in bed.

The other thing I didn't like was the cockroaches.  (Although they were not unique to this particular house.  They were pretty much unavoidable in the Houston area, no matter what house you lived in.  They just came with the territory.)  The cockroaches in that part of the country were fairly large (an inch or two long) with wings--they could fly!  They were so disgusting, and I was terrified of them.  It still gives me the "willies" just thinking about them!

Now a few quick (I hope) observations about our neighborhood.  We lived in a great established neighborhood with lots of mature trees.  The houses all looked different--not like the "cookie cutter" housing developments you see these days.  I became quite familiar with an extended area of our neighborhood because I rode my bike to school from first grade on.  The suburb we lived in was called El Lago, and we did live fairly close to a lake.  (There were lots of lakes, creeks, and so forth in the area where we lived.  One time I saw a crab crawling down the street.)  The streets in our neighborhood had great names like Pebble Brook, Willow Vista, Shadow Creek, Hickory Ridge, and Lakeshore Drive.  I knew kids from school that lived on most of these streets, but we mostly stayed on our own street and played with the kids there.  I remember that there was a small park on one of the streets several blocks away.  We lived just a few miles from the NASA space center; we drove by it often on our trips to church or to the store.  The elementary school I attended while we lived here was named after Ed White, an astronaut who died in a fire during a launch test.  I remember one of the neighborhood kids pointing out a certain house near mine where "an astronaut used to live".  As I mentioned before, it rained a lot and a few times the streets flooded.  I remember at least one time the streets filled up with enough water that our neighbors across the street were able to row their canoe down the street.  Thankfully, our house didn't flood, though.

We lived in Houston for about 3 1/2 years.  I have really fond memories of our house and of the time we spent in this area.                   



Friday, April 13, 2012

Weekly Review April 13 '12

 The last couple of weeks (in spite of the colder temperatures) the iris have started to bloom.

 Iris are one of my favorite flowers.  They are so majestic, and they come in so many beautiful colors!


Have I ever mentioned that I love the view out my back windows?  I think I have, a few times...!
I took these pictures one day this week.  The early morning light was so beautiful!  It is hard to capture it on film.


The tree line in the distance is along the edge of the Monocacy River.  You can't see the river once all the trees get leaves in the spring, though.

Ok, enough of my raptures over nature...on to a report of what we did this week.  On Friday we were getting the house put back together.  That took up most of our evening but we got it done.  Here's the boys relaxing after we were done:



 So what do you think of the new living room floor?


 Here's a picture of the new tile floor in the entry.

Frank and I took Seth with us to Wal-Mart Saturday morning.  He needed new Sunday shoes and we also got some storage items for the bathrooms and an area rug for the living room.  Here's the new rug (and more shots of the beautiful floor):
 



The rest of Saturday was busy with various chores, including dyeing Easter eggs:


Scott is working on a masterpiece.


Tanner is too.

Look what I made! (He shaved the beard off the next morning, by the way.)


Seth is eating one of the eggs that he dropped two times so we decided to peel it instead of dye it.

 Jared contemplating colors.


 A picture of me!  See, I really do exist.


The cool "Elder" egg we made to give to the missionaries.


Some of the finished product.

We had the missionaries over for dinner that evening.  They liked the egg we made for them.  We all liked the brownies we made--we've discovered since getting the new oven that our old oven is responsible for the dismal brownies we've been eating for the last several years.  We've made two batches of brownies since getting the new oven and are delighted that our brownies are chewy and delicious again instead of hard as bricks.


These eggs are about to become deviled eggs for Easter dinner.  I love the beautiful colors of Easter eggs!


Seth with his Easter basket (he didn't get the Spiderman in his basket, he's just playing with it).

Easter was nice.  I sang two songs as a member of the choir.  I always feel a little weepy on Easter.  It's such a grateful day!  After church we had a nice ham dinner.  Frank always gets gift certificates from a client for honeybaked ham, and we usually save them for Easter.  (Nice, because I would never buy a honeybaked ham otherwise--I think they are way overpriced!  They are good, though.)

Monday was the kids' last day of spring break.  Jared and Scott had orthodontist appointments that morning, which got us moving sooner than we probably would have otherwise.  Scott was really annoyed that he still has to go to the orthodontist, but then at his appointment they told him he's all done and never has to come back.  He was very excited about that!  Scott went to lunch with some friends afterwards.  His friend David came home with him and hung out for the rest of the afternoon.  David used to live in this house.  I asked him if we had destroyed his childhood home, and he said "No.  It looks a lot better now." 

Tuesday we were back to real life.  We are on the home stretch now for the end of the school year.  Scott has 6 weeks of classes left and everyone else has 8 weeks.  It's almost non-stop school, too--no early outs and no days off except Memorial Day and one other unexpected holiday that we just found out about yesterday.  The kids are also going to be out on May 18th because there is a "Group of Eight" world leaders conference happening at Camp David that day.  Because Camp David is in Frederick County, they anticipate that many world leaders, the news media, and their staffs will be traveling through the county that day which will cause lots of traffic congestion and "the potential for security concerns".  So they decided to cancel school.  The Maryland State Department of Education granted a waiver for our school district so the kids don't have to make up this day later, which means that the last day of school is still scheduled for June 8th.  (I'm still waiting for a freak spring snow storm.  I can't believe we've made it through a whole school year without a snow day--or even a delayed opening!)

On Tuesday afternoon I went to stay with an older lady in our ward who recently had surgery to have the lower part of one of her legs removed.  She lives with her son and his family (who are also in our ward) but her son was out of town this week and her daughter in law is taking some college classes, so they needed others to stay with her on days that they couldn't be there.  I took Seth with me, which she enjoyed because she was one of his Primary teachers last year.  They live out in the country on a small farm so Seth was able to spend almost the whole time outside--he loved that!  He jumped on the trampoline and ran around with their dog, who was very enthusiastic about having a little boy to play with.  I was only there for a few hours (we had "shifts") and her physical therapists showed up for about half of that time so I wasn't needed much but it was fun to visit with her anyway.

I barely saw Scott and Tanner all week--the next play at the high school opens up next week and they are very busy getting ready for that.  They stayed after school every day but today, and two of those days they didn't get home until around 10:00 pm. 

It was cold and gloomy on Wednesday.  I had a presidency meeting that morning and roadshow practice that evening.  I spent a hour or so on the phone with a friend that afternoon--she needed a sympathetic listening ear.  So many of my good friends have had terrible things happen to them.  It makes me so sad.  It's not getting any easier to live in this wicked world!  When I think about it, I haven't been totally exempt from those kinds of trials myself, but I have it a lot easier than many.  I am counting my blessings!

Yesterday none of us woke up until late so the boys missed Seminary.  The day was super busy with lots of errands and work to do.  Jared went on a field trip to the Maryland Science Center which he enjoyed.  Frank and I had our marriage class in the evening.  It's giving us a lot of good things to think about and to discuss.

I don't feel like I've been able to get a lot accomplished today; just lots of interruptions.  Like this one:




This poor bird got caught in between the screen and the window in our living room!  It must have come in through a hole in the screen and then it couldn't seem to find the way back out.  I was afraid it was going to hurt itself trying to get out, so I tried to rip a bigger hole in the screen but every time I got near the window the bird would start flailing around.  For some reason, agitated birds freak me out, so I would feel the need to retreat!  Thankfully, after I left it alone for a while it must have managed to find its way back out because when I checked a while later it was gone. 

Snickers was pretty interested in the bird at first, which I'm sure added to its agitation.  Also, when I went outside to try to rip the screen, I was confronted by a large black cat which was lurking just below the window, looking very interested in the bird.  (So yes, a black cat crossed my path on Friday the 13th.  It's a good thing I'm not the superstiscious type!) 

Frank and I were originally planning to go to the temple tonight but I have a bad headache, we're both sleepy, and the boys' scedules are complicating things so we are going to try going tomorrow instead.  Wish us luck!  It usually takes us three attempts before we actually get it to work out.

I've spent a bit of time working on a lesson for YW this week also because I'm teaching this Sunday.  The lesson is on growing in self-reliance, and it is so applicable to some of the things we are going through with Scott that it is almost painful to read about it (but I can't help laughing too)!

I've rambled on long enough now and with interruptions this post has taken way too long so that's it.  

Friday, April 6, 2012

My Childhood Home & Neighborhood, Part 2--Denver, Colorado


My second childhood home was located at 3065 S. Clayton Street in Denver, Colorado.  We moved to this home sometime in 1971--I think late summer or early fall.  We only lived in this house for about two years, but I remember this house a lot better than the first one.  I guess a lot of connections in the brain are established between the ages of 3 and 5!  I don't have any photographs of this house, but the picture above of my sisters Amy, Shellie and I was taken in the front yard.  (I think the picture was taken before a Relief Society fashion show that we were in--check out the cute dresses my mom sewed for us!)  You can see part of the driveway and garage of the house.  I'm pretty sure the house was white with red brick trim.  There was a large window in the front room and a bay window in the master bedroom. 

This house was one story with a full basement.  There were 3 bedrooms and two bathrooms on the main level.  I remember the layout of the main level pretty well, but the basement is a little fuzzy.  There was at least one bedroom down there (maybe 2) where my older brothers slept.  I think my grandpa Johnson helped do some renovations down there after we moved in--finished the bedrooms or added some closets or something like that.  I think the laundry room was under the stairs in the basement.  The basement also had a 2nd kitchen that we didn't use and a room that we used as a family room (that's where the television was).  I think there might have been another room that we used as a playroom too--but I could be imagining that!  I don't remember if there was a bathroom down there or not.

The main level is a lot clearer in my mind.  The front door opened into a small foyer area that opened up to the living room (I think there was a decorative half wall between the foyer and the living room.)  The kitchen / dining area was behind the living room.  It wasn't open to the living room, but there were two large doorways that led to the kitchen--one was opposite the front door.  That one led into the kitchen area, with the basement stairs and a door to the backyard on the left.  The other doorway was at the far end of the living room and that one led into the dining area.  There was a door in the dining area that went out to the back porch.  I think that wall (next to the porch door) had some built in shelves and / or cabinets.  There was a hall way to the left of the foyer that led to the bedrooms.  If I remember right, there was a bathroom and the master bedroom (which had its own bathroom) on the left and two other bedrooms on the right.  Tim and Ben (after he got big enough to move out of my parents' room) were in the first bedroom and Amy, Shellie and I shared the last bedroom on the right.  We slept in a bunk bed with Shellie on top and Amy & I in the bottom bunk.  (We were small enough that we fit in a twin bed easily.)  I'm sure it was a bit of a trial for Shellie to share a room with us, but after we moved out of the Denver house she never had to share a room with us again.

I think my favorite parts of this house were the back porch / yard and the bay window.  Here are a few pictures that were taken in the backyard:   


Amy and I, the day of our fourth birthday party.  Looks like we had roses growing in the backyard, and the back fence was tall and dark.


We had this cool swing set in the backyard that we played on a lot.  The swing set was brand new when this photo was taken; I think it replaced a smaller one.  That's me on the slide.  The girl on the teeter totter swing is a party guest.  You can see in this photo that the side fences were white and not as tall as the back fence.  I remember if I climbed on the fence a little bit I could see into the next yard.


Here's another shot taken in the backyard--this time on Halloween.  (Curtis and Erick must have been too old to dress up and Ben was too little...if he had even been born yet.  Not sure if this photo was taken in 1971 or 1972.  He was born while we lived in this house.)  In this photo you can see the corner of the back porch, as well as a pitching net which was probably Erick's.  The yard was a decent size--big enough for all us kids to run around in, anyway!  For one of our birthdays, Amy & I received a sand box which was kept on the back porch.  It was a really nice sandbox, with a red, white & blue striped awning on top.  We spent a lot of happy hours on the back porch playing in that sandbox!

I remember this neighborhood a lot better than my first one too.  Right across the street was the elementary school that some of my older siblings attended.  I looked forward to going there when I got old enough but we moved the fall I began Kindergarten, so I never did get to do that.  Sometimes during the summer, on weekends, or after school hours we would go across the street to play on the school play ground.  In the winter there was a hill on the edge of the playground where we would ride down sleds. 

Part way down the street there was an empty lot where kids liked to ride bikes / tricycles.  I think I ventured down there once by myself (on my tricycle) but I'm pretty certain that I was not supposed to do that.  I also remember walking to the corner once with some of my siblings and neighborhood kids to a traffic light that had a crosswalk, just so we could push the "walk" button, stop traffic, and cross the street.  I thought this was great fun but we got in trouble for it later.  If we went the other way down the street a long ways (past the empty lot), our street ended at a park that had a dragon made out of concrete.  I wanted to go there a lot but I was not allowed to go that far without a much older sibling or an adult.  That's one of the things I remember about Denver--there were lots of parks.  We went to a number of them when my brothers were playing Little League games or with friends.


Me coming down the slide at a Denver park

The days we lived in Denver were happy ones for me, overall.  I was young and fairly carefree.  I always had brothers and sisters to play with and sometimes we played with other kids too.  I remember a girl named Susan lived on one side of us--she was Tim's age and she was an only child, which was hard for me to imagine.  On the other side was a boy named Robert who was also about Tim's age, with a little sister named Colleen who was a year or two younger than me.  I can remember going to their houses to play sometimes.

Other places I remember visiting while we lived in Denver were the mint, the zoo, Rocky Mountain National Park, the Royal Gorge, Mesa Verde, and Pikes Peak & the Garden of the Gods.  We also went through the Eisenhower Tunnel.  I was kind of scared of tunnels at that age, but the Eisenhower Tunnel was well lit.  I loved the mountains and I loved it when it snowed!  (I have outgrown the love of snow, however, although I still love mountains.)  I think it was at this age that I began to love doing new things and seeing new places. 

That's my memories of my second childhood home. 

(If you look it up on Google maps, the house looks somewhat different--I think it's been painted a darker color and the large living room window has been replaced by another bay window.  The school is still there and looks just how I remember it.)

Weekly Review April 6 '12

I have to start out this post with the tree, right?  The tree in the middle of the picture (in between the tallest one and the reddish one) is the same tree that I've put at the top of my post the last two weeks in a row.  As you can see, all the big pink flowers are gone now (you can sort of see a brownish pink color--that's what's left of them) and now there are lots of green leaves.  Sorry--the picture isn't that good.  I had to take it from my bedroom window because, once again, I can't get to the kitchen door very well.  Today that's because most of the living room furniture is crammed into the kitchen.  (More on that later.)

The boys have been on spring break this whole week.  It's gone by fast.  In spite of our unusually mild winter, the weather has been a bit on the chilly side this week.  That's what always happens for spring break!  It hasn't been as bad this year as some years, though.  Most days have been sunny at least and a few days have been pleasant temperatures.  It definitely hasn't been shorts weather, though and we've had a number of frost warnings at nights.  We've had some rain, too.

Sunday was beautiful and restful.  I just love General Conference!  The boys did a great job listening this year (well, except Seth).  He kept quiet most of the time, though, so that the rest of us could hear.  He did help me with one of the "listening bingo" games for a while, though.  He was more interested in the M&Ms and skittles that we were using for markers than anything else, though.

The rest of the week hasn't been restful but most of what we've been doing is not interesting to read about.  We did the usual shopping and cleaning and so forth.  I am finding that I am a lot more motivated to clean my house when I know it's actually going to look better when I'm done.  I'm almost enjoying cleaning house, believe it or not!  My bathrooms and kitchen look shiny & neat when I'm done (mostly...I still have some decluttering to do).

The work on the downstairs bathroom and foyer floor started on Monday, so the house has been all messy again this week.  Here is a "before" shot of the foyer floor:


Yes, white linoleum again.  This one had water damage too--by the front door--and it always looked dirty.  I am so glad it is gone now!  (I haven't taken an "after" photo yet--have to do that next week.)  The same flooring was in the downstairs bathroom.  The backboard and tile went down on Monday, the grouting was done on Tuesday, and the bathroom was put back together on Wednesday.  The house was mostly back to normal on Thursday--all he did that day were some smaller jobs like fixing our dryer vent.  Our friend had some doctor appointments and other commitments this week, so he was only here partial days on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday.  The laminate flooring we ordered finally came in yesterday afternoon so last night Frank and the boys pulled up the living room carpet (after moving most of the living room furniture into the kitchen).  Here they are working on the carpet last night:
    

(You can sort of see the new tile foyer in this photo too.)  Here is Seth, climbing all over the living room furniture in the kitchen (he thought it was awesome!):


And here is our friend laying the laminate floor this morning (with Seth in the way, of course):

He is mostly done now, so next week I will have an "after" photo of the living room, once we get a chance to put it all back together.  Doesn't the floor look nice so far?  I was NOT sorry to get rid of that worn out, stained, 19 year old carpet!  We are noticing already that the laminate floor is brightening up the room a lot because light reflects off the light colored wood a lot more than it did off of carpet.  (Although the carpet itself was fairly light.)  We ended up choosing a floor that looks like maple.  After looking at lots of samples, I realized that I must really like maple because all the samples I liked the most were some type of maple.  It looks like we will be spending the evening moving furniture and cleaning again!  I hope that is the last time for a while, though.

We did a few other notable things this week.  Tuesday was primary election day in Maryland.  Scott came with me to vote--it was his first time.  Even though he's not 18 yet, he is allowed to vote in the primary because he will be 18 before the general election.  I took all the boys to a big wooden slide on Tuesday also.  (The weather was fairly warm that day.)  It's at a park about 20 minutes from here.  Some of the older boys had been to it before but I never had.  It was pretty cool and they had a great time.  I am really mad at myself for forgetting to take a camera--I would have been able to get some great shots of the boys coming down the slide!  Seth had so much fun.  As soon as he got to the bottom of the slide he would jump up and say "Ok, let's do that again!"  There's a big pile of sawdust at the bottom for soft landings so now there's lots of sawdust in my car. 

Scott invited one of the girls in our ward, Ellen, to come with us to the slide.  On the way home I found a short cut that got us home MUCH faster.  We stopped at the pizza place where Scott worked temporarily to get drinks and a pizza to share.  The owner is such a nice guy.  He tried to give or order to us for free but we "out foxed" him.  After we all got into the car, I sent Scott in to the restaurant with a $20 bill--he left it on the register and ran! :)  We saw the owner running out the door after us, but we all just smiled and waved as we drove away!

Frank pulled down wallpaper in the bathroom Tuesday evening as well--he wanted to get the wall behind the toilet and sink done before they were put back in.  His back has continued to bother him a bit this week so he has had to be careful.

Scott has been helping to build sets at his school for the upcoming play (Legally Blonde).  He worked 2 or 3 hours on Wednesday and he is back again today.  He also applied for scholarships at BYU-I and started looking for a job out there too.  I took the younger three boys to get haircuts.  Frank and I got signed up for benefits with Marriott.  Frank took the oldest three boys to see The Hunger Games yesterday.  (They've all read the books, including Frank, but I haven't so I stayed home with Seth.)  Tanner spent the night with his friend Seth on Wednesday night and Jared went to a late night movie party at his friend Ian's the same night.

As for me, I've been trying to take it easy a bit the last few days because I've had a scratchy throat, headache, runny nose and cough.  It might be allergies, but it's hard to tell.  I've been reading my book for book club (Snow Flower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See) a lot the last few days and I'm most of the way through.  It's a good story and I've learned a lot about Chinese culture, including a lot more about foot binding than I ever wanted to know.  I knew it was a bad thing, but I didn't realize how truly horrific that practice really is.  It's hard to believe so many Chinese girls went through that.  A lot of things in that book make me grateful that I was born in this country in this century!

That brings you up to date on our lives.  We hope you all have a beautiful Easter!