I feel like May went by really fast. Well, sort of. The parts where I was lying awake wishing I could sleep felt very slow. (On that note--my sleep patterns haven't changed much. I had at least 3 nights that I was awake for 2+ hours in the night, and I woke up between 3:00 and 4:30 all the other mornings. I did take a couple of naps here and there which helps.) This week has been pretty busy, with a lot of new or extra things going on. Here's the details for each day:
Saturday May 30th: Frank had to leave early to set up all the IT / AV stuff for the regional Women's Conference. I went over later when the meeting started. It was very good. Tracy Browning (from the Primary General Presidency) was the keynote speaker and after that there was a panel discussion. A lot of great thoughts were shared! After the broadcast ended, there was a light lunch served and I got to visit a bit with friends.
I spent the rest of the day figuring out my talk for Sunday, listening to the Follow Him podcast, and reading the book chat book. I also went on a walk with Frank and took a short nap. I was feeling pretty tired and somewhat grumpy most of the day (probably from lack of sleep).
Sunday May 31st: The morning was quiet with scriptures and a few games (I do the NYT games every day). I was speaking in Sacrament meeting and felt somewhat anxious about that all morning...I felt like I reverted into my old anxious self, which was frustrating. Once the meeting started, I felt better, though. The first youth speaker spoke for about 1 minute, the second one for about 3 minutes, and the third one for about 8 minutes. That means I got more time to speak than I anticipated, but I had planned a five minute talk with extra stuff to add in if I had more time, so it worked out fine. I actually could have said more if there had been more time! When Tammy got up to give her talk (with about 25 minutes left in the meeting) she said "Sister Cleveland and I have no trouble speaking for a long time, so we are not going to get out early today". She was right! 😅 We each spoke about 10 minutes, and I made sure I left 4 or 5 minutes for the closing hymn and prayer. I feel like my talk went well, overall, and several people said nice things about it to me afterwards.
Frank came to our Sacrament meeting to hear me speak, and then he went to YSA meetings. We had our 5th Sunday discussion about the Constitution (as everyone across the USA did). After church, I went to choir practice. Another couple in our ward invited us over for dinner that evening. We had a quick family night lesson after Seth and Frank got home from their meetings. I also did a quick assessment over the phone with the mission lead for the family search service mission. He just asked me questions about my computer skills. He said the next step is for me to get interviews with my bishop and stake president. I have an interview with my bishop on Sunday. After those things were done, we went to dinner with our friends. (Seth fed himself and went to mission prep class). This couple is quite a bit younger than us, but we seem to have a lot in common. We really enjoyed dinner with them, and ended up visiting until past our 8:00 pm bedtime. They live out in the country in a beautiful location. We had to drive over an old covered bridge to get to their house.
Monday June 1st: I took Seth to work and then met Tammy at the church to clean out our Seminary closets. We usually clean them out after each semester, but we never got around to it last semester, so they were pretty messy and we had a lot of stuff we don't need anymore. It took us a couple of hours to finish that task; we enjoyed visiting with each other as we worked, of course! I went to Walmart to get groceries on my way home.
I got to talk to Amy for a while that afternoon before picking Seth up from work. Since it was the first day of June, I changed the door decoration, pillow covers, and S&P shakers. When Frank got home from work, he went through his clothes and added his donations to the two bags of my clothes. He also went through the trunk of his car and threw away a bunch of stuff.
We had family night activity (played Dead Ringer) and treat before Seth had to leave for YSA FHE. I talked to Jared that evening because there wasn't a chance to talk to him on Sunday.
Tuesday June 2nd: This day was quite busy. I got a later start because I took a nap after exercising and eating breakfast. I got meals planned and I was also able to talk to Scott for a few minutes. I had lunch with my friend Rebekah. She very recently returned from a trip to Utah to help her daughter (who had her first baby); she had been gone most of the month of May, so we had a lot to catch up on. On my way there, I stopped at the storage unit to put a few things in it. When I was pulling into the parking lot, I suddenly realized that I couldn't remember the code to get in! I tried a couple of codes which didn't work. Then I tried to call Frank to see if he could remember, but my call went to voicemail. Then I decided to try again because I was pretty sure I finally remembered what it was, but that code didn't work either. I was giving up and leaving when Frank called me back. He gave me the same code as the last one I entered, so I decided to try that one more time, and it worked that time. (I must have typed a number wrong or something.) I wasn't too thrilled with that senior moment, though. It's not pleasant to suddenly not be able to remember something that I have known for years!
After my lunch with Rebekah, I took the two bags of clothes to Goodwill to donate. Then I watched the live stream of the TJ High School graduation, because four of the youth in my Seminary class were graduating. They don't read the graduates' names in alphabetical order at TJ (they have a unique recessional where each student chooses a "walking partner", so they seat them so that they meet their walking partner) so I had to watch and pay attention if I wanted to hear each of their names and see them walk across the stage. There were over 400 graduates, and it turns out that one of my Seminary students was the next to last student to walk, so I had to listen to the entire thing! 😐But two of my students also played drums in the recessional, so that was cool to see, and I was able to get good screen shots of all four of them receiving their diplomas. I was also able to clean all the bathrooms while I watched / listened to the graduation ceremony.
That evening was my first shift at the temple. I had planned to drive myself, but then my friend who is going to be giving me a ride on the 2nd Tuesdays--and who is one of the assistant shift coordinators and was assigned to show me around all evening--texted me and said that three sisters on the shift had called in sick, so she wasn't going to be able to spend the whole shift training me. Instead, she wondered if she could pick me up and give me a ride down so that she could spend that time giving me some instructions. So that's what we did. When we got to the temple, she showed me where the workers' dressing room is located, and after I changed I went to the office where a member of the temple presidency met me. He met with me briefly to give me a few instructions and to ask me a few questions, and then he set me apart as a temple worker. I went to another office to get some processing done and then fixed my nametag (it said "Karen Cleveland", so they changed it to "Annette Cleveland".) Then my friend (Sherrie) met me and she took me downstairs to the prayer meeting. Frank came to that, too. (I also saw him when I first came in because he always mans the recommend desk during the time when all the temple workers are arriving.) That's the last time I saw Frank until it was time to go home, though!
After the prayer meeting, Sherrie showed me around part of the temple; we didn't have time to see everything. She took me to the laundry and the clothing rental and up to the endowment rooms to show me a few things there and showed me where the offices for the endowment coordinators and veil workers are located. Along the way, she introduced me to a lot of the other workers and asked a few of them to share their best advice with me. 😇 After that, Sherrie was needed to do some work and I was assigned to be the hostess on the main level for 30 minutes. They figured I could handle that job on my own, because all I had to do was smile and say "welcome to the temple" to everyone who walked by. I also gave directions to a few people who had not been to the DC temple before, but that was easy since I know my way around the main parts of the temple really well. After my 30 minutes as hostess, Sherrie returned and took me up to initiatories to show me a few things there. Then they needed her to work in initiatories for a while, so she gave me the instructions for initiatories to study while she did that. We were hoping that I would get a chance to observe her do a few intiatories and maybe even do a few myself, but there wasn't time for that before the shift ended. I went home with Frank, but I had to wait quite a while for him because he was working the veil for the last session. I waited for him "on the bridge"--at the DC temple, the main entrance where the recommend desk is located is in a separate small building that is connected to the main temple building with a long, wide hallway / walkway that is connected to the 2nd floor of the temple, so it's basically a bridge. There are windows all along the wall on both sides with nice views of the temple grounds, and lots of chairs to sit in while you wait. While I was waiting, a couple of brothers came by and introduced themselves and told me how much they enjoy working with Frank. 😊 It was nice for Frank and I to talk together on the way home. We got home very late, though. Seth hadn't arrived home from work yet, but he did get there within about 30 minutes.
I promise I won't give that detailed of a description of every temple shift! Just wanted to remember my first one. It was a little bit crazy, but mostly good.
Wednesday June 3rd: This day also started later since it was one of the nights that I was awake for hours in the night. (And when I say "later", I mean 7:00, not exactly sleeping half the day away!) While awake in the night, I had been feeling quite a bit of anxiety about the temple--I'm very comfortable there as a patron, but being a worker is really new to me. When I went back to sleep, I had stressful temple dreams where I was messing up a bunch of stuff. I don't know why I was feeling so anxious about it, though, and that was frustrating. When I was exercising that morning, I was watching The Chosen, and the story of Mary and Martha from the Bible was depicted in that episode. Remembering that story helped me quite a bit. When Jesus tells Martha that she is careful and troubled about many things, it reminded me of myself! I realized that I shouldn't be so worried about doing everything right. I need to focus on the most needful things: the importance of what we are doing in the temple and helping the patrons feel loved. That's it!
I was able to work on the dollhouse a little bit on Wednesday. I painted a second coat on some smaller decorative pieces. I didn't have time to do more because I was volunteering at a back tax clinic that afternoon / evening. The back tax clinic is also run by VITA, and it's basically the same thing we do during the tax season except it's for people who have taxes from previous years that still need to be filed. It was a bit different, though, because we weren't each assigned one taxpayer per hour. Instead, most of the taxpayers were scheduled for multiple hours and all of the volunteers worked together to get their taxes filed. Some of them had multiple years that needed to be filed and there were also some complicated situations to figure out. I spent most of the time working with one tax payer who needed to file taxes for 2023 but also needed to file ammendments for 2021 and 2022. There were a lot of issues to work through. By the time we got done, it was after 7:00. I got home in time to eat a little bit and then went to bed!
Thursday June 4th: I woke up at 3:00 because I had a charley horse in my left calf. Not the nicest way to wake up. Besides getting all the regular chores done, I also talked to Tanner for a while and watched part of the Walkersville high school graduation to see one of my Seminary students graduate. Walkersville high school is a lot smaller than TJ and they also put the graduates in alphabetical order, so I didn't have to pay as close attention. Plus, my Seminary student's last name starts with G, so that was closer to the beginning and I didn't need to watch the rest, which was nice!
That afternoon, Frank & I took a much needed nap and then we made dinner and ate together while watching an episode of Once Upon a Time. After dinner, we went on a walk. (Seth was at work).
Friday June 5th: This morning I woke up at 4:30, which is pretty good for me! I exercised and watched a few episodes of The Chosen. (I exercised every week day, although I didn't always mention doing that.) Then I updated the finances and had lunch before writing this post. It's only mid afternoon now. I'm not sure what I will be doing the rest of the day, but I will probably go on a walk and work on the dollhouse a bit. (I still haven't accomplished much on that project this week.) I didn't go to the temple today since I went on Tuesday. I will go on Fridays on the weeks that I don't work at the temple.
Frank got his second dose of the Shingles shot this morning. His arm is already feeling pretty sore! Better than getting Shingles, though.
Seth has been pretty busy with work. He worked Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and will work today too. (Leaving in a few hours). Most of his shifts have been later in the day--like 3:00 to 10:00 or 10:30. He will work about 25 hours this week, total. That's a lot more hours than he was getting at Roy Rogers. Seth also went to a movie and to Institute on Wednesday. I told him he has to work on cleaning his room at least 30 minutes every day, so he's been doing that this week. He has thrown out a few things and I see a slight improvement in his room. Hopefully by the end of the summer, his room will look a lot better!
Besides the things I already mentioned plus work, Frank has been planning some things for our trips this summer. He prepaid for parking at the airport and he also reserved a rental car (both for our trip to Utah). I forgot to mention around the end of April that they announced at UMD that there would have to be some lay offs and that they would happen by the end of June. Frank found out yesterday that all the layoffs happened this week, and he was not one of them, so that is good news! We weren't incredibly worried about it, but it's still nice to know for sure that that's not going to happen to him.
In between everything else, I have done some reading--I'm trying to finish Notes from Underground for book chat. I'm over halfway through with it now. It isn't long, but it requires thinking, so the reading is going kind of slow.
That's all I can think of to write about this week. I'll finish up with a few photos of the local wildlife. I've been seeing a deer behind our house quite a bit this week, and yesterday there were two rabbits on our lawn / the neighbor's lawn.













































