Well, this week has been pretty eventful. For starters, the
school week was ridiculous. Monday was a normal school day but there was no
school on Tuesday since they use the schools as polling places. Then the rest
of the week was parent / teacher conferences, so Seth had school 4 hours late
on both Wednesday and Thursday, and he got out 3 ½ hours early today.
Last Friday, other than the usual stuff I do, I took the sister missionaries to an appointment. We got there and the person they were supposed to be
teaching wasn’t there, but then they discovered that she had left them a
message that she needed to reschedule, so at least she hadn’t completely
ditched them. We tried checking on a few other people, but no one was home. We
wanted to give the Sisters a desk so after that we went back to our house to
pick up the desk and take it to their house. Then I couldn’t figure out how it
was supposed to go together, so Frank came over and helped us figure that out.
On Saturday we had Pack Meeting—we distributed the bags for Scouting for
Food. Seth and I worked together to get the bags put on all the doors for
several streets. We worked hard for 3 hours and Seth did a
good job and only complained a little bit when he started to get tired, so I
was proud of him. We had the Elders over for dinner and watched most of the BYU
football game (we had to turn it off while the Elders were there.)
On Sunday Frank made it to Ward Council again but had to leave
after the sacrament again. Hopefully he will be able to go to all of church again
someday! I’m sure he will, but it is going to take time. The rest of Sunday was
very restful, which was nice.
On Monday I met with the new Wolf den leader to answer
questions and give her information on how we are doing things in the cub
program. I also had a doctor appointment (just an annual check up). Since Seth
was out of school on Tuesday, he was invited to play at the carpool boys’ house
for the afternoon. Frank and I voted. Then we avoided the television / social
media for the rest of the day and went to bed at the usual time. I just
couldn’t face all the election stuff! Frank often wakes up in the night and that
night was no exception, so he just happened to be up and online around 3:00 am
when it became apparent that Trump was going to win. I woke up shortly after
that, as I sometimes do when Frank is awake. Frank said “Trump won” and I was so
surprised that I couldn’t go back to sleep for over an hour. I certainly did
NOT expect that! Since then, I have heard constant laments about the state of
our country but to my surprise, I have been feeling remarkably cheerful. Not
really because Trump won…more because Hillary Clinton lost!! Sorry, but I just
really, really, really didn’t want her to be president. I don’t like Trump
either. But since we’ve got him, I’m interested to see what he will do, and I’m
hopeful he’ll change a few things that I don’t like. Also, overall I have to
say that in my lifetime elections have come and gone and no matter who wins,
whether I like them or not, whether I agree with their politics or not, the
quality of my everyday life is really not impacted much by who is in the White
House. I feel very, very blessed to live in a country where I have the freedom
to worship how I choose and where we are incredibly prosperous compared to most
people in this world. I have a roof over my head, plenty of food to eat,
clothes to wear, numerous comforts (such as running hot water, air
conditioning, and central heat), good health, the opportunity to get whatever
education I want and to become whatever I want to be. How can I complain when I
have all of that? Yes, this country has problems—big ones. But we are still
incredibly blessed. There isn’t much room in my heart for anything but
gratitude.
Okay, off my soapbox! J
Wednesday was also busy. I had another annual check up procedure (totally
routine) and in the afternoon I went to a little birthday gathering for a friend in the ward. We just talked and had yummy food. I had a parent teacher
conference for Seth after school. He is actually doing pretty well. He is
focusing a lot better than he did last year (there is room for improvement
still, but he’s making progress). He tested above average in both reading and
math when they tested him at the beginning of the year. He’s also been calmer
and getting along well with others most of the time AND his teacher said she
wishes all of her students had such a neat and well organized binder! She
showed it to me, and she’s right—it’s pristine! He does like things to be “just
so”, although you’d never guess that when you look at his room.
After going to the conference, I came home and made dinner
and then went to visit my friend Wanda for a bit. She had called me earlier in the day,
crying, but I couldn’t go see her right then. It’s really unusual for Wanda to
be down like that, but she’s been struggling a bit lately. She was feeling
better by the evening but she still enjoyed the visit. We talked for a while
and then we watched Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy together. They had a Jeopardy
category on The Chronicles of Narnia—I got all of those answers right!!
Yesterday I got my hair done in the afternoon and that
evening we had a dinner and activity for Relief Society. One sister did a
presentation about the joy of laughter; Frank helped her with the technical
aspects of her presentation. He tried to show me how to do it, but I didn’t
have enough time to learn it well enough to feel confident that I could do it,
so Frank came over to the church to help with that part. We had a nice dinner and
played a game to get everyone to laugh. It was a fun evening.
Sam also got here last night—a member of our ward works near Fort
Meade so he picked him up and brought him (a different member than last time). Sam has today off since it is
Veteran’s Day, so he came to spend the weekend here. However, he didn’t finish
work as early as he anticipated on Thursday so he had to grab all of his stuff
really quick and when he got here he realized he left a pile of stuff that he
meant to grab, including his toothbrush and his Sunday clothes. The toothbrush
I was able to help him with, but not the Sunday clothes so this morning I drove
him back to Fort Meade to get his stuff. We went from there to the temple. The
temple was totally packed today—besides being a federal holiday so a lot of
people were off work, there were three stakes there for their temple day. I
couldn’t even find an empty parking space, but had to park on the curb on one
side, at the very back of the parking lot. In our session, they had to bring in
chairs and put them along the wall so there would be enough seats for everyone.
Crazy!! But it was great to see so much temple work getting done for so many
people, and I was happy to finally make it to the temple again, after trying to
get there unsuccessfully last week. We didn’t get back home until close to 4:00
and so it was almost time to start making dinner. Frank picked Seth up from
school while we were gone. I am tired now, but it was a good day.
Frank had PT today and on Wednesday. He is supposed to start
walking without his crutches as much as possible now, although today they
worked his knee pretty hard so they told him to use the crutches again for a
few days. He is hoping to go back to work in a few weeks, but we will see how
he is doing. I don’t want him to rush into it. He is tired of not working,
though.
I finished reading The Bronze Bow to Seth. It is was one of my very favorite books as a child, and I still love it. It was satisfying I to see that Seth really liked it, too. Now we are going to start From the Mixed Up Files of Mrs. basil E. Frankweiler. I finished reading The Graveyard Book, but I haven't started another book yet.
It is still warmer than average here although it is cooler
today than it’s been in a while. We got a lot of rain on Wednesday but the rest
of the week has been sunny. The whole world has turned gold and orange, and it
is beautiful!!!
That's everything around these parts for this week.