This week was fairly busy and I also had a lot of bad sleeping nights, so it was kind of a whirlwind.
When I wrote last Friday (April 17th), I was getting ready to make dinner for the missionaries. That went well and they seemed to enjoy dinner with us. Frank got home late from the temple.
On Saturday April 18th I didn't have to get up early, but I woke up in the night and was awake for a few hours, so I was still tired. In the morning I worked on my Seminary lesson for Monday (still trying to make it shorter, but I finally gave up). Then I went to lunch with my friend Rebekah. After lunch I prepared my Seminary lesson for Tuesday and then took a nap. After dinner, Frank and I went to a Jazz band concert at one of the high schools. It was a fundraiser for the bands and one of my Seminary students was playing in it, so that's why I was going. Frank was kind enough to come with me so that I didn't have to go alone. The tickets were a bit more expensive than a lot of high school events, but the cost of the ticket included a beverage and a piece of cake. The first group to play was a jazz band from one of the local middle schools and they weren't very good (but they're still learning, of course!) The other two groups were high school students and my Seminary student was in both of those. They did a great job--really, quite impressive. I was surprised when I got there and got a program to see my Seminary student's name listed in the "special thanks" section at the bottom of the program. I was able to talk to his mom and found out that this student had done a lot of work planning which songs they would play and arranging all the rehearsals and so forth. Pretty cool!
When we got home from the concert, it was starting to get dark but I could tell that it was also going to rain and the lawn needed to be mowed really badly, so I quickly mowed the lawn. I'm glad I got that done! I mowed it the previous Saturday also, but within a few days it looked like it needed to be mowed again. That's what happens when we get a lot of rain.
Sunday April 19th was rainy. We had church as usual except that Seth came with us because he had a mandatory work meeting that afternoon which was during the YSA Ward time. I had choir practice after church and after that we had a little social with refreshments. Frank had stayed to drive me home, so he joined the social too. We didn't stay a long time, though. We came home and had FHE lesson and dinner and I talked to Jared. Seth went to mission prep class. Frank gave me a blessing that evening because I've been feeling anxious about some things. The blessing has really helped me, and I am grateful.
I woke up at 1:00 am on Monday April 20th, which I never love but I've come to accept that it just happens sometimes. My Seminary lesson that morning was on the topic of "God wants to have a relationship with you". This is the one I was trying to make shorter all week last week. It went a lot better than I anticipated--I somehow managed the time and we finished when I wanted to. We still got out a few minutes late overall, but that wasn't my fault. The stake Seminary supervisor talked a lot longer than the 8 minutes she had asked me to leave for her, so it was her fault we got out late. 😊Afterwards, she wanted to talk to us for a while but Tammy had to drive the carpool so she just talked to me. Her main question was to ask how we are feeling about teaching another year. Tammy and I have talked about this quite a bit, and Tammy had told me she's mentally prepared to teach another year. I know I could do it, too, and in some ways I really want to do one more year, but there are also reasons why it would be better if I didn't, so I've been feeling pretty conflicted about it. I talked with the stake Seminary supervisor about it, and even though she didn't say anything that I hadn't already thought of myself, I left that conversation with my thinking shifted quite a bit, which I wasn't expecting. Up until now, I've been thinking I would do one more year. Now I'm leaning more towards not doing another year. I will need to do some more pondering about it, but that conversation felt like an answer to prayers (because I've been praying about this a lot lately).
After I got home and ate breakfast and finished chores, I took a 2 hour nap and then reviewed my lesson for Tuesday. I also started practicing the song that I'm singing in a small group for a RS activity and discovered that it is NOT going to be an easy song to learn. There are a lot of tricky rhythms and the accompaniment does not support the parts at all. (It's pretty, though.) I practiced it some more on Tuesday and yesterday and I am seeing some improvement, so that's encouraging, at least.
In the early afternoon, one of the sisters I minister to contacted me to see if I could help her. She had fallen earlier that day and hit her mouth on a wood piece of furniture and knocked her two front teeth in. Her husband had been able to take her to the dentist to get her teeth fixed, but he was recovering from a bad cold and both of them were feeling really wiped out so she wanted to know if we could have their daughter, Genny, over for a few hours that evening to give them a chance to rest. Her daughter is an adult, but she is disabled and is more like a 2 year old, mentally. We did our FHE activity and treat that afternoon and then Frank made dinner while Seth and I went over to pick up Genny. She is actually very sweet and easy to watch. We fed her some dinner and she likes to watch television, so we watched some television with her. She likes old shows from the 50s and 60s and currently loves "My Favorite Martian", so we watched a few episodes of that. I had not seen it before and even though it's pretty cheesy, I actually liked it a lot. 😂Seth went to YSA FHE, and Frank and I took Genny back home shortly before our bedtime. She really has a sweet spirit and we always enjoy having her in our home.
Also on Monday, one of the boys in my Seminary class got his mission call! He is going to Farmington, New Mexico and starts his mission on July 1st. He texted Tammy and I to tell us on Monday and on Tuesday morning we gave him a few minutes to announce his call to the class.
My lesson on Tuesday April 21st went well. The topic was using the For the Strength of Youth guidbook to connect our choices to Jesus Christ and His doctrine. A new edition of this guidebook just came out recently and I was able to get some copies of the new version for the youth who don't have access to the gospel library app.
Thankfully, I slept better Monday night--one of the few good nights I had this week. After some really warm (even hot) days last week, we had a cold front come in and we even had a freeze warning overnight from Monday to Tuesday. It was quite cold that whole day, but sunny. When I was driving to Seminary that morning, it was so much lighter than it had been on Monday morning (it was cloudy that morning) that I was worried that I was somehow really late! (I wasn't, though.)
On Tuesday besides regular chores, I planned Monday's Seminary lesson and started planning Tuesday's. I also talked to Scott for a little while and I painted a few of the small dollhouse parts. That's ALL I was able to get done on the dollhouse this week, though. Hopefully I will find more time next week--that project has really stalled the last 2 weeks.
I started reading a book this week called The First State of Being. It is last year's Newbery winner, and I received a copy of it for Christmas but haven't had a chance to start reading it until now. (I'm still waiting to get a copy of the book chat book, so I don't have anything else to read). It's kind of fun to read this book because it is set in Newark, Delaware in the late summer of 1999. We actually lived in Newark, Delaware in the summer of 1999! Some of the places mentioned I recognize (like the Christiana Mall). I also thought the name of the apartment complex where the main characters live sounded familiar, so I looked it up on Google maps to see if it was a real place, and it was--and it was even in the part of Newark that I thought it would be.
That night was another bad night. I fell asleep around 8:40, but then woke back up about 30 minutes later and couldn't go back to sleep. I was still awake when Frank got home from the temple around 10:30. Then I drifted off for about 30 more minutes, but then Frank's blood sugar alarm went off and woke me up again. I was awake for another hour or so and then finally went back to sleep until the alarm went off, but of course that was only a few hours later. Frank went back to sleep after the alarm went off because his blood sugar alarm had gone off several more times in the night--thankfully I slept through all the other alarms. After Seminary I took a 2 1/2 hour nap. We had guest teachers for Seminary that morning--a recent YA convert and the Elders from a neighboring ward team taught the lesson. Well, sort of! We found out from the YA when he arrived that the Elders had never contacted him to coordinate. They still managed to pull off a pretty good lesson that appeared to be planned together, even though it wasn't!
That afternoon I had volunteered to take a sister in my ward to a doctor appointment. That ended up taking over 3 hours because I had to go pick her up (opposite direction from the doctor's office), get her back to the doctor's office for her appointment about 15 minutes early, the waiting + appointment time took about an hour, and then on the way home she needed to stop at the post office to pick up her mail (she has a post office box). She doesn't have the key to her PO box (her son has it) so we had to wait in line and the line was very long and moved very slowly. After we finally finished at the post office, I took her back home and also had to look at one of her medications to see what dose she is taking because the doctor wanted to increase her dose for that medication but wanted to confirm the dose she was already taking. (The doctor visit was actually to see her cardiologist and I think it was a good thing that I ended up taking her because I knew exactly what the doctor was talking about, since I have experience with heart problems and I took this same medication when I was pregnant with Seth. This sister is older and gets confused easily, so she didn't always understand everything that the doctor was saying.) Anyway, I was happy to help her, but I didn't get much done that day. By the time I got home, Frank had started making dinner. I was still tired (in spite of my nap) and didn't get anything else done that evening besides cleaning up after dinner and I read a little bit.
Tammy planned a fun lesson for Thursday April 23rd. She was teaching about the ten commandments, and she divide the youth into small groups and assigned each group one of the commandments. She asked them to sculpt a representation of their commandment, and everyone else had to guess which commandment it was. They had a lot of fun with that. She also gave them some other assignments related to their commandment, and they really did a great job with that and shared some awesome insights.
After Seminary, I got chores done and then went on a walk with the RS president in my ward, who is also my ministering sister. I enjoyed visiting with her, but the weather had warmed back up and was slightly humid, so I got pretty hot. We had to switch from heat back to air conditioning in the house that night because it was so warm!
After the walk and lunch, I worked more on my lesson for Tuesday and finally managed to get it planned, although I still have a lot of work left to do on it because this one is going to require a lot more preparation than most. It took me longer to plan than it should have because I was really tired and not very productive. I really should have taken another nap before trying to plan!
That evening I went to a play at one of the high schools--one girl in my Seminary class was in the ensemble and another girl was playing the keyboard in the pit orchestra. The play was well done--I was impressed with the costumes, set, and the singing ability of some of the leads--but I didn't love the plot of the play itself (Mama Mia!). Tammy and I went to the play together and I enjoyed that.
The play was long and it didn't start until 7:00, so I got to bed very late last night and morning came much too early.
We had a very small group at Seminary this morning (Friday, April 24th)--only 8 kids, probably the smallest class we have ever had. We had three different sibling sets who didn't make it today, plus a few others missing. We knew ahead of time that two of the sibling sets weren't going to be there and that another sibling set wasn't likely to be there, so it wasn't too surprising that the class was small. After Seminary I got the budgeting done but I was really struggling to stay awake so I took a short nap after that.
Yesterday was our 34th wedding anniversary. We gave each other cards, but we didn't do anything else to celebrate because we planned to celebrate tonight. We are going to go to Medieval Times in Baltimore for their dinner & show, and since it ends pretty late we are going to stay in a hotel there tonight. Then tomorrow morning we have an appointment to do sealings at the temple. It should be fun! It is almost time to go, so I will wrap up for this week.









































































